Within the last two years I have really made a effort to "perfect" my game. I have read great stuff from guys like David D, Swinggcat, Mystery, Badboy ETC when I happened upon an old movie I love. The main stars name is Cary Grant (if you don't know who this is you better be looking him up now) when I realized that all of actions where directly in line with the stuff you'll learn as a DJ. The specific movie I'm talking about is called Charade with Audrey Hepburn. Negs, Indifference, Having fun, Prizing, Controlling frames, Mystery's 9 step approach he does that too and all at the right times! That's what's great about his movies compared to other romance films this is a guy that does everything "by the book". Trust me guys go out and get his films he is literally the greatest movie Don Juan of all time.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The perfect (DJ) role model
- Thread starter Enchant
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
If you liked that movie I also suggest watching Frank Sinatra in "Pal Joey". It also displays all the right things a DJ should do.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Enchant said:Ol' blue eyes was a pure natural but I prefer movies that don't bust out into song and dance
C'mon! that would be so Super suave to randomly bust out into song and dance in Day-to-day life