Within the last two years I have really made a effort to "perfect" my game. I have read great stuff from guys like David D, Swinggcat, Mystery, Badboy ETC when I happened upon an old movie I love. The main stars name is Cary Grant (if you don't know who this is you better be looking him up now) when I realized that all of actions where directly in line with the stuff you'll learn as a DJ. The specific movie I'm talking about is called Charade with Audrey Hepburn. Negs, Indifference, Having fun, Prizing, Controlling frames, Mystery's 9 step approach he does that too and all at the right times! That's what's great about his movies compared to other romance films this is a guy that does everything "by the book". Trust me guys go out and get his films he is literally the greatest movie Don Juan of all time.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The perfect (DJ) role model
- Thread starter Enchant
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
If you liked that movie I also suggest watching Frank Sinatra in "Pal Joey". It also displays all the right things a DJ should do.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Enchant said:Ol' blue eyes was a pure natural but I prefer movies that don't bust out into song and dance
C'mon! that would be so Super suave to randomly bust out into song and dance in Day-to-day life