Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

The pain in the a$$ of dealing wtih 25+ women

Slowhandluke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2022
Messages
642
Reaction score
720
Age
49
So if you can't find that younger girl, it's celibacy till death?
You say that as if it's a bad thing. Sometimes, you have to cut your loses. It's like being forced to go to war, would rather be dead or have a hand missing. You deal the best you can with the situation given to you.
 

Pierce Manhammer

Moderator
Joined
Jun 2, 2021
Messages
4,678
Reaction score
5,676
Location
PRC
25 women!!?! The max I can handle is like 5 concurrently, damn!

;)
 

DonJuanjr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2021
Messages
3,439
Reaction score
2,395
Age
36
You say that as if it's a bad thing. Sometimes, you have to cut your loses. It's like being forced to go to war, would rather be dead or have a hand missing. You deal the best you can with the situation given to you.
Have you been through long term celibacy?
 

DonJuanjr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2021
Messages
3,439
Reaction score
2,395
Age
36
Yes.. yes I have. hahaha 2 year is longterm to me...
That's not long term. Try several like some guys on here, or mine of 12 years... Even though it was volcel and not incel, a piece of my masculinity went dormant. That's why I'd rather bang a fat woman or ugly woman vs. allowing that to happen again.
 

Slowhandluke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2022
Messages
642
Reaction score
720
Age
49
Try several like some guys on here, or mine of 12 years...
So no... not longterm as in 12 years... If I was ever in that situation, I would just get an escort. I wouldn't get a fat women or ugly woman. Its just not worth it. I would get a hot escort and call it a day. There's just too much emotions involved when you deal with women esp. fat woman or ugly women. I just don't want to deal with it and I don't want feel bad later.
 

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,061
Reaction score
416
Location
Miami fl
thats why working from home is a gift for some no more office politics (have you seen the show)?.
 

derby1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2017
Messages
3,316
Reaction score
3,461
Literally!! I can predict 90-99% of what a girl is going to say on a first date.

1). Insert some study abroad to Spain, Italy, or UK. Bonus points if they went to a developing country.

2). Has at least one bachelorette trip planned within 2 months

3). Jaded and distorted by getting burned by chasing High SMV men or athletes.

4). Obsessed with a niece or nephew or has a woman crush on her bff

5). Favorite food is Tacos, Queso, Margarita
you missed


6) Ex was a narcissistic abuser............
 

derby1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 10, 2017
Messages
3,316
Reaction score
3,461
Yep, I’d worry more about her being an Alpha Widow than high count
they all have been alpha widowed. I remember one lad he was the furthest from alpha you could get (in mens eyes) wasnt even hung.

But he was an expert at messing women around and deeming women unworthy. they used to pine for him like it was the school playground :rofl:
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
12,271
Reaction score
10,527
Western women by 25 already have 200,000 miles on the odometer. Maybe time to take your game overseas.
It's not that difficult for a 25 year old woman to get a high notch count. However, only a select percentage of women do that. Most settle with some boyfriend or have a series of 1-3 year relationships. Most are not putting up 5-10 notches per year.

With that said, Western men are so thirsty that 25 years old isn't typically considered undesirable. In the West, it can be argued that male thirst has made women of all ages more marketable. 35 and 40 year old women still generate a lot of interest, especially via tech assisted means (swipe apps and social media).
 

svencandy

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2021
Messages
47
Reaction score
22
Age
35
It's not that difficult for a 25 year old woman to get a high notch count. However, only a select percentage of women do that. Most settle with some boyfriend or have a series of 1-3 year relationships. Most are not putting up 5-10 notches per year.
I disagree. If a woman has "travelled", she likely gets sick minimum 3x a week.

I'm friends with women and have travelled with them. They got ducked almost everyday.

I dated a girl and told her my mate went to Europe and put away 2 girls a week for 3 months.

She laughed and said "is that all". Turns out she got new dock every day for 6 weeks straight.

This is the norm.

After they get comfortable with it, because let's face it, in the beginning it is somewhat uncomfortable for them, they are like a crack addict for a certain period of time. Whteher that is 3 months, 6 months or years, in 3 months they can easily crack 30, and thats the norm, even for girls youd never suspect.
 

Bigpapa

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2020
Messages
3,195
Reaction score
2,497
Age
124
I disagree. If a woman has "travelled", she likely gets sick minimum 3x a week.

I'm friends with women and have travelled with them. They got ducked almost everyday.

I dated a girl and told her my mate went to Europe and put away 2 girls a week for 3 months.

She laughed and said "is that all". Turns out she got new dock every day for 6 weeks straight.

This is the norm.

After they get comfortable with it, because let's face it, in the beginning it is somewhat uncomfortable for them, they are like a crack addict for a certain period of time. Whteher that is 3 months, 6 months or years, in 3 months they can easily crack 30, and thats the norm, even for girls youd never suspect.
this is a marginal case , most people can not afford time wise to go to somewhere for 6 weeks :)

so most likely it is this hippie and most likely crazy type of woman that you are talking about

and usually this chicks are also not that good looking , medium at best
 

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,547
Reaction score
2,231
Location
NYC
You guys find the most insignificant things to complain about lol
It may sound crazy but I sort of understand what OP is talking about.

My last serious girlfriend was 25 when we broke up and if you ask her, she's already done everything you can think of until it got boring for her. Whether she was just boastful or actually serious, it got annoying really fast.

Another girl I was talking to last year is around the same age and she's already travelled the world (rich parents?) So I was having a bit of trouble planning a decent date. Luckily she found herself a rich guy that wants to blow hundreds of dollars taking her to Miami in the first month of dating so I can find a lower maintenance girl.
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,093
Reaction score
1,456
They marry 6 and 7 year olds too...guess that's a great idea also.

Not in any country i have been to. Just keep trying to believe the propoganda that the jewish controlled western media and feminists are pushing on you though. There is actual science to back up the notion that women absolutely ruin their pair bonding ability as their partner counts increase.

When i see a woman with a high count, i know right off the bat based on her tone of voice, attitude and general view point of things. I can see it in the face and eyes as well immediately.

Women with high counts might as well be trannies as far as i am concerned. They are ruined and lost most of their natural femininity a long time ago.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
13,243
Reaction score
14,182
Not in any country i have been to. Just keep trying to believe the propoganda that the jewish controlled western media and feminists are pushing on you though. There is actual science to back up the notion that women absolutely ruin their pair bonding ability as their partner counts increase.

When i see a woman with a high count, i know right off the bat based on her tone of voice, attitude and general view point of things. I can see it in the face and eyes as well immediately.

Women with high counts might as well be trannies as far as i am concerned. They are ruined and lost most of their natural femininity a long time ago.
Muhammed married a 6 or 7 year old. How is that propaganda?? That's who they follow in Islam, Muhammed is the main prophet...
 

Smok1nAce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
624
Reaction score
573
Not in any country i have been to. Just keep trying to believe the propoganda that the jewish controlled western media and feminists are pushing on you though. There is actual science to back up the notion that women absolutely ruin their pair bonding ability as their partner counts increase.

When i see a woman with a high count, i know right off the bat based on her tone of voice, attitude and general view point of things. I can see it in the face and eyes as well immediately.

Women with high counts might as well be trannies as far as i am concerned. They are ruined and lost most of their natural femininity a long time ago.
dead on.
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,093
Reaction score
1,456
Muhammed married a 6 or 7 year old. How is that propaganda?? That's who they follow in Islam, Muhammed is the main prophet...

The world is a lot bigger than just the middle east ffs. The middle east is too extreme with everything imo.
 

indiff

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2020
Messages
57
Reaction score
53
Age
47
Not in any country i have been to. Just keep trying to believe the propoganda that the jewish controlled western media and feminists are pushing on you though. There is actual science to back up the notion that women absolutely ruin their pair bonding ability as their partner counts increase.

When i see a woman with a high count, i know right off the bat based on her tone of voice, attitude and general view point of things. I can see it in the face and eyes as well immediately.

Women with high counts might as well be trannies as far as i am concerned. They are ruined and lost most of their natural femininity a long time ago.
Yea, can’t put my finger on it but women whose been on the CC are quite confident and are generally more masculine. Sure, there are exceptions but it’s better to talk about the probable than the possible. I use that as a yardstick when it comes to LTR. Although, for flings, I fvck them all.
 
Top