"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The other reason men are bad with women?

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We all read about "Nice Guys" and "oneitis" as the reasons men fail with women, but I read this Sunday and it got me thinking.

http://www.dilbert.com/comics/dilbert/archive/dilbert-20060205.html

What if some men fail (or don't even try) with women not because they think that women are goddesses deserving the world on a silver platter, but instead because they think that they themselves are worthless sh!t that no woman could ever be sexually attracted to?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Docs
That's why the other half of this site is about self-improvement. :rolleyes:
Bingo, bango!


What if some men fail (or don't even try) with women not because they think that women are goddesses deserving the world on a silver platter, but instead because they think that they themselves are worthless sh!t that no woman could ever be sexually attracted to?


Have you ever noticed how closely related the two are?

Men who go around thinking that women are goddess's normally have low self esteem anyway.

Its a good rule of thumb to remember that women, eat, sleep, ****
and one day will die just like everyone else will one day.

Nowdays when i look at a very beautiful women thats what I see, besides the beauty of course.
:crackup:



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