"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The other reason men are bad with women?

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We all read about "Nice Guys" and "oneitis" as the reasons men fail with women, but I read this Sunday and it got me thinking.

http://www.dilbert.com/comics/dilbert/archive/dilbert-20060205.html

What if some men fail (or don't even try) with women not because they think that women are goddesses deserving the world on a silver platter, but instead because they think that they themselves are worthless sh!t that no woman could ever be sexually attracted to?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Docs
That's why the other half of this site is about self-improvement. :rolleyes:
Bingo, bango!


What if some men fail (or don't even try) with women not because they think that women are goddesses deserving the world on a silver platter, but instead because they think that they themselves are worthless sh!t that no woman could ever be sexually attracted to?


Have you ever noticed how closely related the two are?

Men who go around thinking that women are goddess's normally have low self esteem anyway.

Its a good rule of thumb to remember that women, eat, sleep, ****
and one day will die just like everyone else will one day.

Nowdays when i look at a very beautiful women thats what I see, besides the beauty of course.
:crackup:



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