"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nosmirk

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i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It may make you look like a chump

It may make him look like a chump.

It may make you look like the better proposition.

It may make him look like the better proposition.

How about you don't even give him any credence and don't mention him at all - if you mention him it's likely to show you're insecure about him, which you are. Why gamble?

The Muscly Jerk
 
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nosmirk said:
i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
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No. It's petty. If you've been an AFC before, you should know that "Operation Hater" never works. Build yourself up without having desperation.
 
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