"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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nosmirk

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i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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musclyjerk

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It may make you look like a chump

It may make him look like a chump.

It may make you look like the better proposition.

It may make him look like the better proposition.

How about you don't even give him any credence and don't mention him at all - if you mention him it's likely to show you're insecure about him, which you are. Why gamble?

The Muscly Jerk
 

Pappadapolis

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nosmirk said:
i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
No. It's petty. If you've been an AFC before, you should know that "Operation Hater" never works. Build yourself up without having desperation.
 
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