"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nosmirk

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i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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musclyjerk

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It may make you look like a chump

It may make him look like a chump.

It may make you look like the better proposition.

It may make him look like the better proposition.

How about you don't even give him any credence and don't mention him at all - if you mention him it's likely to show you're insecure about him, which you are. Why gamble?

The Muscly Jerk
 

Pappadapolis

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nosmirk said:
i know we shouldnt be concerned about competition from other people,

but is it a good idea to tease a girl about a guy who likes her? ( she knows he likes her, but it MIGHT not be mutual.)
No. It's petty. If you've been an AFC before, you should know that "Operation Hater" never works. Build yourself up without having desperation.
 
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