Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Optimum Age to DJ?

Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys,

What do you think is the "best" age to be, in terms of pulling women. What age do you think brings the most success?

Conversely, what age ranges are terrible, or quite challenging?

Nick
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think it's more of an experience thing. Why limit yourself with things you cannot control such as age ?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I think it's more of an experience thing. Why limit yourself with things you cannot control such as age ?
You are absolutely correct - age should have no effect on the man's viewpoint to his value in life, but my question is more theoretical, scientific in nature. It relates to the responsiveness to a man's advances in an encounter with a girl - at what age is it the easiest to convince her in your attitude and actions that you are surely a worthwhile person, and not some kid (ie, being too young) or some old, weird person after young chicks (ie, an old person).
 
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