"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Optimum Age to DJ?

Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys,

What do you think is the "best" age to be, in terms of pulling women. What age do you think brings the most success?

Conversely, what age ranges are terrible, or quite challenging?

Nick
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I think it's more of an experience thing. Why limit yourself with things you cannot control such as age ?
 

Nicholas Hill

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I think it's more of an experience thing. Why limit yourself with things you cannot control such as age ?
You are absolutely correct - age should have no effect on the man's viewpoint to his value in life, but my question is more theoretical, scientific in nature. It relates to the responsiveness to a man's advances in an encounter with a girl - at what age is it the easiest to convince her in your attitude and actions that you are surely a worthwhile person, and not some kid (ie, being too young) or some old, weird person after young chicks (ie, an old person).
 
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