"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The Ooze"

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Look on the main page of this site and read the article titled "The Ooze." What do you think about this? The author clearly encourages story embellishment and lying to win the opinion of chicks. Do you agree with this or disagree? Why? How much embellishment is too much? I'm thinking the chick could check with your friends and find out if you're lying or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't care much for the article myself. I think it's just his point of view, and not all girls are like the one he described. I wasn't really impressed with how he said you should make it seem like you have been in fights or play rough sports, either. It's sounds rather insecure, actually. Not that I havn't played rough sports
or have engaged in fights, I just don't think that sort of behaviour is a prerequisite to woman, and who cares otherwise.

That's my opinion anyways...
 

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I think that article gives bad advice, because it encourages you to brag about yourself on dates. If you brag on dates, you give off the impression that you want to impress the broad, and that is considered desperation, not confidence. You should be making her try and impress you. Not only that, but the more you tell her about yourself, the less of a mystery you are.

Personally I think that the guy's hookup was a fluke. The girl sounded like someone who isn't used to getting approached (embarassed after sex, what is she amish?). A secure confident woman will see right through your bragging and will ditch your ass.

There are many ways to "ooze testosterone" other then bragging. Unyielding eyecontact, kino, low voice, etc all achieve the same result, and don't make you look desperate.

You're better off reading Pimpologist's methods in the bible then bothering with the "ooze"
 

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Yeah, rgeere, I think it's a bad tip. Makes it sound like you 'have something to prove.' It goes against the "don't give a fukk" attitude.
 

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How that made the main page ...

... I'll never know. I was cracking up reading it, thinking is this for real? Do guys really act like that?

Many women might be clueless, but many more also pick up on things, like B.S.

Some of the tips that make the home page are amazingly bad and I'm shocked they land there.

If you have to force things, you're not on your game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sorry, MOM, I didn't see your post b/c you posted right before me. But yeah I agree. The tip is bad, makes you sound like a try-hard.

Yup, there are many other ways to 'ooze' testosterone, none of which involve bragging. Also, Pimpologist was the man! You have inspired me to go re-read his tips!

Westcoaster, LOL. Yeah now that I imagine it, hearing a guy tell a chick "Yeah and once I got in a fight..you know... for my friend" sounds INCREDIBLY INSECURE.

I dunno how the tip got on the main-page either. Who proof-reads them? Allen? Anyways I can only recall a few "tips" articles from the main-page but one that is simply GOLD is "Forestwalk." Excellent kino and FUN! :)
 
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