The only time looks actually, really, REALLY matter is in online dating.

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Even then, though, if you meet a girl because of physical attraction but your game/personality/confidence etc sucks, you're still f*cked. I have *seriously* never been approached by a woman in the real world in my life, yet in the online scene (made a profile on PoF mainly for sh!ts and giggles) I've gotten a sh!t ton of messages in the last two weeks without sending any myself.

 

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Even then, though, if you meet a girl because of physical attraction but your game/personality/confidence etc sucks, you're still f*cked. I have *seriously* never been approached by a woman in the real world in my life, yet in the online scene (made a profile on PoF mainly for sh!ts and giggles) I've gotten a sh!t ton of messages in the last two weeks without sending any myself.

Yeah but what about the quality of the women? I don't think what you say holds any value due to the fact that i'm willing to bet most of the women sending you messages are below your league.

I don't think saying "looks don't matter" holds value when any good looking guy will get his inbox flooded with messages from hb 6's and below. Any remotely cute female on POF is not sending the first message but only replies as she has tons of messages flooding her inbox everyday. She is getting all the attention she craves. You would have to be a freaking doctor with a picture of the 6 figure car to back it up to get a message from a hb 8/9 on POF with her sending the first message.

 

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Yeah but what about the quality of the women? I don't think what you say holds any value due to the fact that i'm willing to bet most of the women sending you messages are below your league.

I don't think saying "looks don't matter" holds value when any good looking guy will get his inbox flooded with messages from hb 6's and below. Any remotely cute female on POF is not sending the first message but only replies as she has tons of messages flooding her inbox everyday. She is getting all the attention she craves. You would have to be a freaking doctor with a picture of the 6 figure car to back it up to get a message from a hb 8/9 on POF with her sending the first message.

I thought the same thing. I figured that any girl who was even remotely good-looking would have so many messages flooding her inbox that she wouldn't even bother searching for guys on the site. Surprisingly, some of them were attractive. But looks can be subjective. You may think a girl is smoking, I may think she's average, and vice-versa.

Age is a factor. I really don't think the women in my age group are looking for a guy who is loaded with money (a plus, though, I'm sure).

I also think that I am (unfortunately) living proof that looks =/= success with women

 

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Wow, after reading this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177163

I am beyond shocked that I actually got messages from girls on POF. The fact that Des made a profile with a very average looking girl and had guys throwing themselves at "her" feet as well as putting up with "her" crap is mind blowing for me. WTF is this world coming to? No wonder a lot of women are with *******s, because an assh0le is something different from the other 4030538597592793 guys out there. This sh!t makes me sick.