"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The only thing keeping me from becoming a DJ..

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The only thing that seems to be keep me from becoming a DJ is the whole "social status" thing. I mean I have a lot of friends, and know a lot of people, I get along with just about everybody. However there is still a few people that don't like me, or I'm enemies with. I think I've got an average rep, somewhere between average and cool, nothing more nothing less. I'm not a loser, but I'm by no means big guy on the block.

Okay, well anyway. It seems like I don't really fit into a social class. I'm just kind of there. The only hott girls in my classes are the popular preppy kind, it's intimidating a little bit, but the thing is these girls only date guys in their social class. I'm sure they've turned down decent guys just simply because they weren't "cool" enough, they're kind of shallow, now that I think of it. These girls can't afford to lose their reputation so they're extremely picky. I can small talk with them a bit, but it's almost damn near impossible to get them interested. It's like they're afraid.

Now I guess I could go for the cute non shallow girl that isnt as picky, but most of those are already taken. I live in a really small town, so any girl worth taking already is taken. It just sucks sometimes. My options are so limited.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yea why are you limiting yourself to your school. I also think you have a self-defeating attitude here man. Just be cool about things when you talk to them and bust on them. Take them off that pedestal you have them on. I bet if you isolate one of those girls things will be totally different. They are human after all and attraction works inside of them just like every other girl.
 
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True, but all the guys they hang out with hardcore dumbass meatheads.

There was one time I was gaming some chick, then I had a bunch of those idiots on my ass. They ruined my game because they would come up to me whenever I talked to her and be like "Why are you talking to her?" "What do you think you're doing?" being total **** blocks. Then they would just talk ****. They were obviously just jealous, but it still ****ed up my game hardcore. And I really don't feel like fighting anyone this year.
 
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NFC said:
True, but all the guys they hang out with hardcore dumbass meatheads...
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So you're the one that has changed and you are expecting them to change as well? Like Mr. Unique said, take your game on the road or at least find another group of women to sarge in your area.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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