“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The only thing keeping me from becoming a DJ..

NFC

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The only thing that seems to be keep me from becoming a DJ is the whole "social status" thing. I mean I have a lot of friends, and know a lot of people, I get along with just about everybody. However there is still a few people that don't like me, or I'm enemies with. I think I've got an average rep, somewhere between average and cool, nothing more nothing less. I'm not a loser, but I'm by no means big guy on the block.

Okay, well anyway. It seems like I don't really fit into a social class. I'm just kind of there. The only hott girls in my classes are the popular preppy kind, it's intimidating a little bit, but the thing is these girls only date guys in their social class. I'm sure they've turned down decent guys just simply because they weren't "cool" enough, they're kind of shallow, now that I think of it. These girls can't afford to lose their reputation so they're extremely picky. I can small talk with them a bit, but it's almost damn near impossible to get them interested. It's like they're afraid.

Now I guess I could go for the cute non shallow girl that isnt as picky, but most of those are already taken. I live in a really small town, so any girl worth taking already is taken. It just sucks sometimes. My options are so limited.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea why are you limiting yourself to your school. I also think you have a self-defeating attitude here man. Just be cool about things when you talk to them and bust on them. Take them off that pedestal you have them on. I bet if you isolate one of those girls things will be totally different. They are human after all and attraction works inside of them just like every other girl.
 

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True, but all the guys they hang out with hardcore dumbass meatheads.

There was one time I was gaming some chick, then I had a bunch of those idiots on my ass. They ruined my game because they would come up to me whenever I talked to her and be like "Why are you talking to her?" "What do you think you're doing?" being total **** blocks. Then they would just talk ****. They were obviously just jealous, but it still ****ed up my game hardcore. And I really don't feel like fighting anyone this year.
 

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NFC said:
True, but all the guys they hang out with hardcore dumbass meatheads...
So you're the one that has changed and you are expecting them to change as well? Like Mr. Unique said, take your game on the road or at least find another group of women to sarge in your area.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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