"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only thing HS girls care about

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Ahh okay, thanks. Just wondering, what would you guys all constitute as being dressed well and being dressed terribly?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls see how you take care of yourself. They will see if you are trying to look nice.

Again and again, I suggest you to talk to more people in your school and make more friends being friendly. Do the basics first. Read the bible again
 

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rockman said:
Ahh okay, thanks. Just wondering, what would you guys all constitute as being dressed well and being dressed terribly?
Think about what the popular guys wear. What are popular clothing stores in your area? Around here American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie, etc. are the rage. If you're not sure how to put together an outfit, go into one of the "hot stores" and look at the mannequins. Hell, most of the time the chicks working there will put together an outfit for you if you ask them. If you can't afford 'em (all the stores I listed are terribly overpriced, and IMO played-out) look at the things there and find cheaper versions in other stores or on the internet.

Read some fashion mags, check out websites, just research. Being well-dressed isn't so much having all the latest styles, it's more like looking like you actually put some thought into what you're wearing. Generally I know I'm well-dressed when I look in the mirror and I can feel confidence just beaming out and I think "Damn! What a sexy man" lol. Most importantly of all, wear clothes that FIT RIGHT. Not to baggy, and not too tight.

And I doubt that all HS chicks care about is looks. True, looks do matter, but nowhere NEAR as much as you think they do. Looks may get your foot in the door, but if you're a chump they'll still blow you out.
 

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BlakeW5 said:
Think about what the popular guys wear. What are popular clothing stores in your area? Around here American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie, etc. are the rage. If you're not sure how to put together an outfit, go into one of the "hot stores" and look at the mannequins. Hell, most of the time the chicks working there will put together an outfit for you if you ask them. If you can't afford 'em (all the stores I listed are terribly overpriced, and IMO played-out) look at the things there and find cheaper versions in other stores or on the internet.

Read some fashion mags, check out websites, just research. Being well-dressed isn't so much having all the latest styles, it's more like looking like you actually put some thought into what you're wearing. Generally I know I'm well-dressed when I look in the mirror and I can feel confidence just beaming out and I think "Damn! What a sexy man" lol. Most importantly of all, wear clothes that FIT RIGHT. Not to baggy, and not too tight.

And I doubt that all HS chicks care about is looks. True, looks do matter, but nowhere NEAR as much as you think they do. Looks may get your foot in the door, but if you're a chump they'll still blow you out.
hmm yeah that definitely helps
 
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