"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahh okay, thanks. Just wondering, what would you guys all constitute as being dressed well and being dressed terribly?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls see how you take care of yourself. They will see if you are trying to look nice.

Again and again, I suggest you to talk to more people in your school and make more friends being friendly. Do the basics first. Read the bible again
 

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rockman said:
Ahh okay, thanks. Just wondering, what would you guys all constitute as being dressed well and being dressed terribly?
Think about what the popular guys wear. What are popular clothing stores in your area? Around here American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie, etc. are the rage. If you're not sure how to put together an outfit, go into one of the "hot stores" and look at the mannequins. Hell, most of the time the chicks working there will put together an outfit for you if you ask them. If you can't afford 'em (all the stores I listed are terribly overpriced, and IMO played-out) look at the things there and find cheaper versions in other stores or on the internet.

Read some fashion mags, check out websites, just research. Being well-dressed isn't so much having all the latest styles, it's more like looking like you actually put some thought into what you're wearing. Generally I know I'm well-dressed when I look in the mirror and I can feel confidence just beaming out and I think "Damn! What a sexy man" lol. Most importantly of all, wear clothes that FIT RIGHT. Not to baggy, and not too tight.

And I doubt that all HS chicks care about is looks. True, looks do matter, but nowhere NEAR as much as you think they do. Looks may get your foot in the door, but if you're a chump they'll still blow you out.
 

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BlakeW5 said:
Think about what the popular guys wear. What are popular clothing stores in your area? Around here American Eagle, Hollister, Abercrombie, etc. are the rage. If you're not sure how to put together an outfit, go into one of the "hot stores" and look at the mannequins. Hell, most of the time the chicks working there will put together an outfit for you if you ask them. If you can't afford 'em (all the stores I listed are terribly overpriced, and IMO played-out) look at the things there and find cheaper versions in other stores or on the internet.

Read some fashion mags, check out websites, just research. Being well-dressed isn't so much having all the latest styles, it's more like looking like you actually put some thought into what you're wearing. Generally I know I'm well-dressed when I look in the mirror and I can feel confidence just beaming out and I think "Damn! What a sexy man" lol. Most importantly of all, wear clothes that FIT RIGHT. Not to baggy, and not too tight.

And I doubt that all HS chicks care about is looks. True, looks do matter, but nowhere NEAR as much as you think they do. Looks may get your foot in the door, but if you're a chump they'll still blow you out.
hmm yeah that definitely helps
 
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