"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only situation where I totally freeze up...

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Stryker

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I've pretty much got a decent grip on how to approach girls, get a conversation going, and leave with her phone number. However, there's one place where I totally freeze up, and I have no idea how to handle the situation. The till point at a coffee shop. It's seemingly impossible to me at the moment. I always feel like I'm on a major time limit (I've never been in this place before without seeing a huge queue), and whilst I manage to get a short conversation going with this girl and get a few laughs, that's pretty much it. She gets on with her job and serves the next person.
I'm not stressing much over this, but it would be nice to get a few tips on how to handle this situation. It seems quite advanced.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ooh thats a tough one. Maybe hang out there after you get your drink making sure to smile and eye contact
her then when she's not at the till, maybe do an "excuse me..." and start a convo that way.
 
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Say you're in a hurry and you need to get going but would like to talk to her more, then number close her.
 
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