"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The only situation where I totally freeze up...

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Stryker

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I've pretty much got a decent grip on how to approach girls, get a conversation going, and leave with her phone number. However, there's one place where I totally freeze up, and I have no idea how to handle the situation. The till point at a coffee shop. It's seemingly impossible to me at the moment. I always feel like I'm on a major time limit (I've never been in this place before without seeing a huge queue), and whilst I manage to get a short conversation going with this girl and get a few laughs, that's pretty much it. She gets on with her job and serves the next person.
I'm not stressing much over this, but it would be nice to get a few tips on how to handle this situation. It seems quite advanced.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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scorpio1138

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ooh thats a tough one. Maybe hang out there after you get your drink making sure to smile and eye contact
her then when she's not at the till, maybe do an "excuse me..." and start a convo that way.
 
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Say you're in a hurry and you need to get going but would like to talk to her more, then number close her.
 
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