"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only difference between "alpha" and "beta"..

Octogonal

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jurry said:
Thats your opinion which has no scientific support, but in any given group there will be an alpha. It comes down to confidence and assertion, and someone who may not be confident on one scenario may be in another. And someone who is not confident can learn to be through experience.
Opinion? Those are the facts. You just don't like to hear it.

An awkward uncoordinated man will never have the talent to be a good athlete. That talent is what you were born with.

A feminine man will never be a masculine man. The femimine man was born with those feminine traits.

A fake internet alpha will always be a beta KJ in real life.

Only true alphas are born with that natural ability to truly possess those qualities that everybody looks up to and women crave. That can't be taught because every beta trying to copy alpha qualities have a crack in their exterior that will always show. They are not a real alpha which is a rare breed.

Of course you can work on confidence and become secure with who you are. Every man should do that to be a successful man. That will help you not to be a beta with women. But trying to say that is the same as being a true alpha and that there is "no difference" is laughable. :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Octogonal said:
Opinion? Those are the facts. You just don't like to hear it.

An awkward uncoordinated man will never have the talent to be a good athlete. That talent is what you were born with.

A feminine man will never be a masculine man. The femimine man was born with those feminine traits.

A fake internet alpha will always be a beta KJ in real life.

Only true alphas are born with that natural ability to truly possess those qualities that everybody looks up to and women crave. That can't be taught because every beta trying to copy alpha qualities have a crack in their exterior that will always show. They are not a real alpha which is a rare breed.

Of course you can work on confidence and become secure with who you are. Every man should do that to be a successful man. That will help you not to be a beta with women. But trying to say that is the same as being a true alpha and that there is "no difference" is laughable. :crackup:
Wrong.

Alpha is a mindset that comes from confidence and wisdom. This leads to leadership abilities. Alphas are not comic book Superheros like you seem to believe and post about on the daily.

Your argument is weak. Your thinking is weak. You are beta.

Try again.
 

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Wrong.

Alpha is a mindset that comes from confidence and wisdom. This leads to leadership abilities. Alphas are not comic book Superheros like you seem to believe and post about on the daily.

Your argument is weak. Your thinking is weak. You are beta.

Try again.
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
 

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Octogonal said:
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
Show me where I ever said I was afraid of losing women.

Telling lies now to win arguments? This is getting sad Octogonal. Polish your trolling skills bro.
 

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Pretty sure Octogonal is beta. Ad hominem attacks go hand and hand with that.

But I digress, true Alphas are content with themselves despite what others think of him. Haters/lovers unconsciously admire that trait.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Octogonal- Being good at sports or having masculine characteristics has nothing to do with being alpha, that person could still be a huge pvssy (ahem, a-rod).

It sounds like you are trying to justify your own failure with women by blaming some mystical alpha super-race that takes all the girls away, when in fact they are just regular people who have experience and confidence.

Thats the point of the post, to rid ourselves of the idea of some perfect, unreachable alpha persona that we must all somehow become. We're all different, we can all put ourselves on the line, grow and become stronger. That is true alpha.
 

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Octogonal said:
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
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