"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The only difference between "alpha" and "beta"..

Octogonal

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jurry said:
Thats your opinion which has no scientific support, but in any given group there will be an alpha. It comes down to confidence and assertion, and someone who may not be confident on one scenario may be in another. And someone who is not confident can learn to be through experience.
Opinion? Those are the facts. You just don't like to hear it.

An awkward uncoordinated man will never have the talent to be a good athlete. That talent is what you were born with.

A feminine man will never be a masculine man. The femimine man was born with those feminine traits.

A fake internet alpha will always be a beta KJ in real life.

Only true alphas are born with that natural ability to truly possess those qualities that everybody looks up to and women crave. That can't be taught because every beta trying to copy alpha qualities have a crack in their exterior that will always show. They are not a real alpha which is a rare breed.

Of course you can work on confidence and become secure with who you are. Every man should do that to be a successful man. That will help you not to be a beta with women. But trying to say that is the same as being a true alpha and that there is "no difference" is laughable. :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Octogonal said:
Opinion? Those are the facts. You just don't like to hear it.

An awkward uncoordinated man will never have the talent to be a good athlete. That talent is what you were born with.

A feminine man will never be a masculine man. The femimine man was born with those feminine traits.

A fake internet alpha will always be a beta KJ in real life.

Only true alphas are born with that natural ability to truly possess those qualities that everybody looks up to and women crave. That can't be taught because every beta trying to copy alpha qualities have a crack in their exterior that will always show. They are not a real alpha which is a rare breed.

Of course you can work on confidence and become secure with who you are. Every man should do that to be a successful man. That will help you not to be a beta with women. But trying to say that is the same as being a true alpha and that there is "no difference" is laughable. :crackup:
Wrong.

Alpha is a mindset that comes from confidence and wisdom. This leads to leadership abilities. Alphas are not comic book Superheros like you seem to believe and post about on the daily.

Your argument is weak. Your thinking is weak. You are beta.

Try again.
 

Octogonal

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Wrong.

Alpha is a mindset that comes from confidence and wisdom. This leads to leadership abilities. Alphas are not comic book Superheros like you seem to believe and post about on the daily.

Your argument is weak. Your thinking is weak. You are beta.

Try again.
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
 

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Octogonal said:
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
Show me where I ever said I was afraid of losing women.

Telling lies now to win arguments? This is getting sad Octogonal. Polish your trolling skills bro.
 

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Pretty sure Octogonal is beta. Ad hominem attacks go hand and hand with that.

But I digress, true Alphas are content with themselves despite what others think of him. Haters/lovers unconsciously admire that trait.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Octogonal- Being good at sports or having masculine characteristics has nothing to do with being alpha, that person could still be a huge pvssy (ahem, a-rod).

It sounds like you are trying to justify your own failure with women by blaming some mystical alpha super-race that takes all the girls away, when in fact they are just regular people who have experience and confidence.

Thats the point of the post, to rid ourselves of the idea of some perfect, unreachable alpha persona that we must all somehow become. We're all different, we can all put ourselves on the line, grow and become stronger. That is true alpha.
 

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Octogonal said:
You mean all those fake alphas trying to pick up chicks at the bars with their fake confidence who get shot down? :crackup:

Then some dude with true alpha traits which is natural to him because he was born with it picks up the same chick with no problem.

You have no argument because you are a beta KJ pretending to be an internet alpha.

A man like you who fears losing women in relationships is a true beta at heart. No Alpha in the world is scared of a woman leaving him when he knows he is above all other men and certainly an inferior woman.

You are a KJ beta posing as an internet alpha. You are a joke.
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