"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The One?

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Is there such thing as "the one", or is this just an illusion that society creates on all of us? Can you sculpt any girl into your perfect mate, thus creating your "one and only"? I am searching for a beautiful girl, who is smart, confident, funny, and doesn't drink or smoke. It seems that girls have some of these qualities but not all of them. Is there actually someone for everyone? Is it possible to find "the one", or do you just have to settle with whatever comes close?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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there is only a handful of women that you will be compatible with on all levels
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
there is only a handful of women that you will be compatible with on all levels
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:rolleyes: Spoken like a true brainwashed Westernised drone. Because out of 3 billion chicks only a few are compatible. I dont know whats more ridiculous, feminised propaganda or tools like you who eat it up. I've met HB8.5's who talk less sh!t than you, pull your head in doofus.
 
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"The One" does exist ... it's YOU.

If you need someone to love, someone to make happy, someone to take care of, someone to devote your life to their dreams ... why not pick yourself?

After all, right now most men could give a rat's ass about themselves and just look how miserable it makes them.

If you don't care about yourself, of course you're not going to care about anyone else, and they certainly won't care about you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spoken like a true brainwashed Westernised drone. Because out of 3 billion chicks only a few are compatible. I dont know whats more ridiculous, feminised propaganda or tools like you who eat it up. I've met HB8.5's who talk less sh!t than you, pull your head in doofus.
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your an idiot.

the guy is 16..im sure he has the capabilities to sort threw 3 billion women.


and stop talking about our Westernized propogranda.

who runs the world?

the USA :)
 
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I see it as every woman has the potential of being The One.
 
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I guess that I'm trying to ask if I should dump my LDR gf of about 7-8 months and she just started to drink. I don't like that, not because I'm insecure but because I don't see any point in it and by drinking she loses her rarity because she becomes like everyone else. Should I get rid of her because of this trait. She even knows that I don't like it but she keeps doing it.
 
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ight man well i think that u and her will work
 
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Viceral is right

In this life you have one constant. You.
Girls will come and go, marriages break up, your best friend will stab you in the back. You'll still be there, this might sound very depressing, but life teaches you this.
As for a woman you'll fall in love with forever and ever, and her too, it won't happen. Love is an illusion created by your mind, chemical releases asscociated with someone and the thoughts and feelings that go with that person.
But love for one's life can grow and grow, when you know your succending and getting where you wanna go, when pulling chicks left and right is childs play, when your friends and familly look up to you for your drive, compassion and strength. Wouldn't this love be better than basing your happiness on somthing out of your controll? Could it not be equal, if not stronger?
Although that "one" love would be a gift sent from heaven, NO ONE is perfect, no situation goes exactly how you want it.
But fair enough, keep looking, keep sifting though the coutless women, maybe you will find her.

Oh and Friv, what he's talkign about is all the female fantasy, disney film bull**** that exsists nowadays. Who the fvck in real life lives happily ever after?
This is somthing that I realised very early on in life, but needed to experiance for it to hit home.

Pooks post
Romanticism: An Obituary
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and im not gonna even start on the usa.

"Ambition is hope, to live without hope is cowardice"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hey man... if you dont like everything about her then theres no need to be together...friends with benifits and find a host of new girls... were in hs bro...theres no need to limit ourselves cause were only young once...btw muay thai... i take muay thai... good looks on that fighting rules
 
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