The ONE.

[Engee]

Hey guys,

Nice community you got going here, I'm glad I joined!

My question is that how do you diffrentiate if the girl you're with is the one for you (i mean like forever) or if youre just being A frickin FC??

She's pretty as hell, sexy, incredibly smart, a virgin, she loves me a lot and I'm so confused!!

 

[JT47319]

There is no such thing as the one.

 

[NRM]

Forget all that crap you just told us. It's obvious you are interested in this girl. If you are interested in her, go on a date with her, give her a good night kiss, and see where it goes from there. Don't give her names like "the one" or blame destiny for whatever happens. Be in control of your own fate. She is not superior to you. Once you start believing that she is "the one" you start to think about how terrible it would be to lose her and then you start acting like a AFC. Screw the contemplating.

Meet a girl -> Interested in a girl -> Date the girl.

Simple.

If she stays and you still like her, she's the one for you. If she doesn't stay, she isn't the one for you. If you lose interest later in the relationship, she isn't the one for you. The only one for you is the one where you both maintain interest in eachother. The only way to find that out is by dating her. Forget soul searching, it never works out.

 

[true|hockey]

Originally posted by JT47319
There is no such thing as the one.

neo, but he's dead , so you are correct

 

[Engee]

Originally posted by NRM
Forget all that crap you just told us. It's obvious you are interested in this girl. If you are interested in her, go on a date with her, give her a good night kiss, and see where it goes from there. Don't give her names like "the one" or blame destiny for whatever happens. Be in control of your own fate. She is not superior to you. Once you start believing that she is "the one" you start to think about how terrible it would be to lose her and then you start acting like a AFC. Screw the contemplating.

Meet a girl -> Interested in a girl -> Date the girl.

Simple.

If she stays and you still like her, she's the one for you. If she doesn't stay, she isn't the one for you. If you lose interest later in the relationship, she isn't the one for you. The only one for you is the one where you both maintain interest in eachother. The only way to find that out is by dating her. Forget soul searching, it never works out.

That was harsh, but thanks a LOT for snapping me back into my reality!!

THANKS!