"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The one drug that we're all addicted to

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Smok1nAce

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Can't remember where I heard the quote, but it went something along the lines of, chase happiness, pleasure (dopamine) is fleeting and once you get it you want more, happiness is ever lasting.

In other words bedding five women might give you pleasure but will it really make you happy?
 

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I'm partial to a line of El Chapo's finest myself.

True, you have sex with a beautiful woman.......yes, it feels good and you might be on cloud 9 for a few days, but then things get back to normal and you crave more and it just creates a vicious cycle.

St. Thomas Aquinas said we humans try and fill ourselves up with wealth, power, pleasure and honor but in the end these things don't lead to joy. The heart only finds rest (joy) in God.
I've come to realise this.
 

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Not really..... sex isn't the end all be all... pleasure is good in doses.. but balance is key.

Chasing pleasure can and will burn you out and make you numb to it... plus once you get older you realize companionship.... loyalty and trust have a lot more value than just pleasure.

Epi
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this is why dudes everywhere is addicted to porn, it’s so comfortable and easy in the moment….rather than doing something constructive.

This is what’s sexual transmutation is all about.
 
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