Originally posted by whatsupwiddat:
I'm pretty sure I don't. Look again or get your eyes readjusted. Stop talking about t-shirts, and LEARN !![]()
Hahaha you edited it. Somebody is ashamed of their Hot Topic T-Shirt!
Great post though.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by whatsupwiddat:
I'm pretty sure I don't. Look again or get your eyes readjusted. Stop talking about t-shirts, and LEARN !![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Brilliant. Thank you.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies:
Don't forget not to neglect your studies! Goddammit I screwed up year 12 (as a result I have to start another course to change to a Law course), because I didn't study hard enough.
Too many people forget this, they try too hard to be popular in high school and forget to do something 15 minutes per day that could affect their entire life.
Remember, its great to build your social skills in HS, but the point is to "Build" your skills. Irregardless of popularity. In my opinion, its better to be seen as the friendly guy everyone can talk to than the aloof jerk, because the former WILL suceed after high school.
go on then, or pm it to meOriginally posted by Da Game
If you REALLY want a killer rep.. Do something ballsy in front of the whole school. Running for student council is a good one. I did that, and gave an election speech that got the whole school laughing, then the administration turned off the microphone partway through, and I was dragged off the stage. Instant celebrity. I was discussed in classes, EVERYONE knows my name, random people will come up and tell me how cool I am, and a couple girls I don't even know want to have sex with me.
If you want a copy of the speech I gave, I'll post it up.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by dip
haha pm me it or post it!!
Originally posted by Da Game
Alright, here's the speech.
Hi everybody. My name is (...), and I’m running for next year’s student council. I’m a national merit scholar and a member of the debate team. However – and don’t stone me for saying this, but school isn’t much fun. If I had a choice, I’d leave and go hang out with my buds.
That’s because right now, school spirit is down, and without school spirit, Prep just isn’t worth a dime. With the right ASB, school spirit can blaze up again. Anyone who knows me will tell you that I’m burning all the time to help improve the school environment. If I were elected, I’d grow school spirit all year long.
The one thing that can really light up the school year is a good student council. Just like a bad council can make a hash out of a good year, a great council can fire up the school and help everyone have a good time. That’s why you need to vote for me.
As an ASB officer, I would display chronic loyalty to the school and its administration, but most of all, the student body. I want to listen to what you have to say, and help stir the pot to get things done. With a great student council we’ll bake up a great next year for everybody, and with my input, we can make student council the hotbox that it once was in the 60s, when our teachers were students here too. And I won’t bogart the glory either – I’ll make sure all the credit stays with you, the students.
A lot of candidates make big promises, but end up cashed out before the year is over. But that won’t happen to me; I have a whole bag of fun things to do, that are guaranteed to be a hit with the whole student body. And I’m not just blowing smoke when I say this; with me, the grass really can be greener on the other side. So when you’re thinking of who to vote for tomorrow, remember (...), and next year will be a year they all talk about.
I am now the best known stoner in my high school. I got dragged off the stage after the second paragraph, but I passed around copies of the speech the next day.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.