Originally posted by whatsupwiddat:
I'm pretty sure I don't. Look again or get your eyes readjusted. Stop talking about t-shirts, and LEARN !![]()
Hahaha you edited it. Somebody is ashamed of their Hot Topic T-Shirt!
Great post though.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by whatsupwiddat:
I'm pretty sure I don't. Look again or get your eyes readjusted. Stop talking about t-shirts, and LEARN !![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Brilliant. Thank you.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies:
Don't forget not to neglect your studies! Goddammit I screwed up year 12 (as a result I have to start another course to change to a Law course), because I didn't study hard enough.
Too many people forget this, they try too hard to be popular in high school and forget to do something 15 minutes per day that could affect their entire life.
Remember, its great to build your social skills in HS, but the point is to "Build" your skills. Irregardless of popularity. In my opinion, its better to be seen as the friendly guy everyone can talk to than the aloof jerk, because the former WILL suceed after high school.
go on then, or pm it to meOriginally posted by Da Game
If you REALLY want a killer rep.. Do something ballsy in front of the whole school. Running for student council is a good one. I did that, and gave an election speech that got the whole school laughing, then the administration turned off the microphone partway through, and I was dragged off the stage. Instant celebrity. I was discussed in classes, EVERYONE knows my name, random people will come up and tell me how cool I am, and a couple girls I don't even know want to have sex with me.
If you want a copy of the speech I gave, I'll post it up.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Originally posted by dip
haha pm me it or post it!!
Originally posted by Da Game
Alright, here's the speech.
Hi everybody. My name is (...), and I’m running for next year’s student council. I’m a national merit scholar and a member of the debate team. However – and don’t stone me for saying this, but school isn’t much fun. If I had a choice, I’d leave and go hang out with my buds.
That’s because right now, school spirit is down, and without school spirit, Prep just isn’t worth a dime. With the right ASB, school spirit can blaze up again. Anyone who knows me will tell you that I’m burning all the time to help improve the school environment. If I were elected, I’d grow school spirit all year long.
The one thing that can really light up the school year is a good student council. Just like a bad council can make a hash out of a good year, a great council can fire up the school and help everyone have a good time. That’s why you need to vote for me.
As an ASB officer, I would display chronic loyalty to the school and its administration, but most of all, the student body. I want to listen to what you have to say, and help stir the pot to get things done. With a great student council we’ll bake up a great next year for everybody, and with my input, we can make student council the hotbox that it once was in the 60s, when our teachers were students here too. And I won’t bogart the glory either – I’ll make sure all the credit stays with you, the students.
A lot of candidates make big promises, but end up cashed out before the year is over. But that won’t happen to me; I have a whole bag of fun things to do, that are guaranteed to be a hit with the whole student body. And I’m not just blowing smoke when I say this; with me, the grass really can be greener on the other side. So when you’re thinking of who to vote for tomorrow, remember (...), and next year will be a year they all talk about.
I am now the best known stoner in my high school. I got dragged off the stage after the second paragraph, but I passed around copies of the speech the next day.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.