The oft-said, "She's not yours forever, it's just your turn"

[Poonani Maker]

Some good (new) distinctions here

I can relate. "It's just not that way anymore" where you settle down into "love" "knowing each other" and being content with that. With most women 2020, you have to ALWAYS be bringing something "new" and "exciting." Even still, she'll cheat or drift off and try another guy behind your back.

 

[ubercat]

Yeah it also kind of evens out as less and less of them are worth keeping around for any extended period of time.

 

[SoSuave666]

The “idea”...and I learned this a long time ago...is to have those short term relationships. That’s the norm. The paradox of choice has ruined functional long term relationships. Women with options (7s, 8s, 9s....you know the women that us men desire) are too fleeting. Become as high value as you can and even then score. Date multiple women and never give exclusivity because it’s just a title.

women are always available even when in relationships? Guess what - me too.

 

[Poonani Maker]

The “idea”...and I learned this a long time ago...is to have those short term relationships. That’s the norm. The paradox of choice has ruined functional long term relationships. Women with options (7s, 8s, 9s....you know the women that us men desire) are too fleeting. Become as high value as you can and even then score. Date multiple women and never give exclusivity because it’s just a title.

women are always available even when in relationships? Guess what - me too.

You know what I'm fortunate of? is to have a mother who is perfectly 'ok' now with my not having children or "getting married." It's as of this year that she understands that you can't Force anything in today's age and that men have died in their 20s in war and never reproduced and women have miscarriages or never reproduce either and that whatever will be, will be. I am her only child and she was a pioneer of feminism in the 80s, but not the wacky feminism of today, just about equality in the workplace (white collar).