"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The official: "Rep a moderator and get repped back" thread

TheVirtualMind

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That's right, just rep me and I'll rep you back.

If you don't know how to rep, just click on the little scale icon under my name.

http://img184.imageshack.us/img184/5954/repha2.png

I will rep you back.

Just think...You repped a moderator and he repped you back! You are now a slightly happier person!

Anyone that negs me gets picture of Paradox...Trust me, you do NOT want those...:cry:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TyTe`EyEs

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I don't even know how to use it. How can you tell who reps you? Does anybody even use that feature?
 

TheVirtualMind

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TyTe`EyEs said:
I don't even know how to use it. How can you tell who reps you? Does anybody even use that feature?
A lot of people use the feature. Mods will be using it a lot more soon.

Go up to the top and click on "User CP." It'll show you who has repped you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quiksilver

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I'm a little confused... TVM have you taken your ritalin today?
 

mpimpin

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who let him out of his cage?!
 

TheVirtualMind

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KillaPetehog said:
As a moderator, couldn't you just put a +1000 on your rep. You're a mod after all. :D :D :D
Erm...We don't have THAT much power...YET.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quiksilver

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whoa! thats cool! how do you change the sosuave skin to that tan color like that???
You don't use the Browner? Poor soul...

Scroll down right now to the bottom left hand corner of the page... There'll be a white click menu on the bottom bar... Those are all the screen/color layouts, I've had the browner for a while now, its much easier on the eyes.
 

WesCottII

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I turned mine off.

Can I get a bl0wjob?
 

TheVirtualMind

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WesCottII said:
I turned mine off.

Can I get a bl0wjob?
Not from me, but if one of the other mods is in desperate need of your non-rep...
 

spider_007

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where did you say the button was - i can't find it.





there is a dark cloud over sosuave.com...and i smell a change coming on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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Quiksilver said:
You don't use the Browner? Poor soul...

Scroll down right now to the bottom left hand corner of the page... There'll be a white click menu on the bottom bar... Those are all the screen/color layouts, I've had the browner for a while now, its much easier on the eyes.
The Browner is definately easiest on the eyes for sure.

I'm not sure about these freebie rep points though. I will say that this site is conciderably more conservative when it comes to repping people then other sites i've been on. The highest rep people on this site have just two squares of reputation and there are only four people with such. Other sites have people with at least six or eight squares of reputation points.

Is it because no one knows how to use it OR maybe because people hate on each other so much here, most reputations stay low. Either way I'm going to wait to see how it pans out a little bit before I start arbitrarily backing people at this point.
 

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I just converted to the brown today, at first it was a little hard to adjust and know which threads were unread but I'm liking it more and more.

GO BROWN GO
 
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