The Official NLP/Speed Seduction Thread

[Reyaj]

If anyone has been following my approach journal you'll see I'm currently stuck at a stage of building attraction. As many of you have heard, there is this psychological use of words called NLP which can suppsosidely make a girl feel attracted to you if done right. I have heard many things about NLP and I am hoping we can all chime in here so we can find out the truth as to whether or not this is something we should all arm ourselves with. Here is what I heard

1.) If done right you can seduce just about any girl
2.) It is a farce and doesn't work
3.) It works a little bit but not to the degree that you can seduce a woman
4.) It works only if mastered.... learning little bits and pieces won't help



So does anyone here truly have experience with this? Perhaps some have read or worked with Ross Jeffries (inventor of Speed Seduction which is predicated on NLP) perhaps others have read various patterns and items and have tried to them to success or failure....



I just need to up my game and I want to know if NLP is the way to go!

 

[Heart Break Kid]

I do not do any speed seduction and personally it has no appeal to me. However you might find some of the information here useful: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=22

But shh, that forum doesn't exist !

 

[Reyaj]

Thanks for the link. I'll check it out

 

[Microphone Fiend]

IMO, you need congruency for NLP to work. It is like icing on the cake. If you aren't racking up the kills then NLP won't be what a great help to you because there is so much to learn and you have to be confident and actually believe in what you say. But if you are doing great and racking up the pvssy, you are already in that mindset and in that case, NLP will help you take your game to the next level.

If you are hell bent on using NLP then I suggest reading some xblitz44xx on this site. He has some good posts that aren't too in-depth but give you a slight understanding as to how and why it works. Here is one good post:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16753

 

[Reyaj]

Thanks for the link MF. You need to get back on the AOS Study thread too


So what is meant by congruency? I've heard this term a lot... is it just mirroring? (taking the meaning of congruent literally) or something else?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

By congruency I mean what you believe being evident in your body (ie how you speak, body language, etc). IOW you have to KNOW that it is going to work and BELIEVE the stuff you are saying even if it seems outrageous.

Oh and Im gonna get back to the AoS thread fa sure man, haha.

 

[broken dreams]

this is definately awesome post.

 

[Reyaj]

By congruency I mean what you believe being evident in your body (ie how you speak, body language, etc). IOW you have to KNOW that it is going to work and BELIEVE the stuff you are saying even if it seems outrageous.

Oh and Im gonna get back to the AoS thread fa sure man, haha.

So in other words congruency just means confidence?