"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Official Newbie Dance Thread

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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danny987

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When your slow dancing with a girl do you talk to her? Or what do you do besides holding her?
 

lawlzors

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danny987 said:
When your slow dancing with a girl do you talk to her? Or what do you do besides holding her?
**** thats what i always wonder.
 

Bling

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Way to overanalyzing it. Make a funny comment, but no reason to have a whole conversation.
 

AlexParadox

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NEVER trying having a conversation.
if your going to have a conversation make sure you actually take her somewhere more quite to talk.

the most you should be asking is:
name/school
then just get in there, slowly get closer and you will notice the girl will become more interested. once you feel youve danced enough where you are full out grinding, take her hand walk away to a quite area and chit chat if you really fvckin wana talk.

try to keep any talking short, you are there to dance, not to talk about the weather. and like i said, never try making a conversation while dancing. you just look weird and awkward since its hard as hell to hear anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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