thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Why is this thread stickied?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
so we could see what a thread is not to turn into, a flame war.Originally posted by thederekeffect1
Why is this thread stickied?
lol this is now the 3rd time youve mentioned slavery with feminism when nobody has even hinted at it once. Iron out your own problems fella before you start telling the rest of us what to do.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Are you referring to the same ancestors who enslaved black people?
Wrong again dumbass, I''ve actually made more than one post on the subject of the word "slvt" and how I personally believe guys who use it are just jealous AFC's who didnt get to take the b!tch home.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Most of your posts tend to be filled a hatred of women, accusing them of being slvts.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by ( . )( . )
the "what do you do" question is usually the 3rd sentence that comes out of the b!tches mouth
The funny thing is, you don't have the balls to use this kind of language in real life.Meeeh she probably made it up anyway, b!tch is probably well aware crying rape is played out nowadays, so shes settling for the next best thing.
I didnt know we knew each other. Go start a thread on slavery or something ya weirdo.The funny thing is, you don't have the balls to use this kind of language in real life.
Dude, youve lost it, breath and relax.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Well not everyone who uses the words "slanty-eyed b!tch" hates asians, or "sh!t-coloured negros" hates blacks either, right?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's kind of pathetic to change your entire attitude for someone else. Do you also grovel to women?Originally posted by ( . )( . )
if I promise to cut back will you promise to stop shaming me and labelling me a WOMAN HATER?
Hey dude, I'm not into that gay stuff. But you can probably find some friends at www.gayalliance.orgsuck my balls tool.
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Quote: il_duce
“B1tch is just another word for a confident woman who always wants to have her way.
Why am I not surprised you have no concept of sarcasm.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
It's kind of pathetic to change your entire attitude for someone else.
Kind of like how we "DJs" are proud of being a$$holes.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
And a sticker proudly displayed on every 2nd chicks car or written on her T-shirt, a state of mind to be proud about.
Oooh ouch been owned by the poodle. Yap yap yap captainsaveaho yap yap, women are precious flowers that must be defended yap yap yap, how can I possibly argue with that?Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
LIT - You make a good point. "B!tch" is just a way for guys who can't get laid to put down confident women
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I've never saved any "hoes". Unlike you, I don't like hanging out with prostitutes.Originally posted by ( . )( . ) Yap yap yap captainsaveaho yap yap, women are precious flowers that must be defended yap yap yap, how can I possibly argue with that?
Oh so its not the way I say it but the way I say it.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
T!tboy: It's not the fact you're calling them b!tches. It's the way you're saying it.
so you have a 19 year old daughter??? Haw sluty is she??? Does she have some class, or did you fail as a father??? don't lie now. I'm just curious.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
...my 19 month old kid play with a pitbull alone because even though it looks cute and everything I still know its nature, I dont "hate" the dog if it bites her,
whatttt!!!!!Originally posted by Wyldfire
And please, people...let's keep people's family members out of the arguing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.