thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
so we could see what a thread is not to turn into, a flame war.Originally posted by thederekeffect1
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lol this is now the 3rd time youve mentioned slavery with feminism when nobody has even hinted at it once. Iron out your own problems fella before you start telling the rest of us what to do.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Are you referring to the same ancestors who enslaved black people?
Wrong again dumbass, I''ve actually made more than one post on the subject of the word "slvt" and how I personally believe guys who use it are just jealous AFC's who didnt get to take the b!tch home.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Most of your posts tend to be filled a hatred of women, accusing them of being slvts.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by ( . )( . )
the "what do you do" question is usually the 3rd sentence that comes out of the b!tches mouth
The funny thing is, you don't have the balls to use this kind of language in real life.Meeeh she probably made it up anyway, b!tch is probably well aware crying rape is played out nowadays, so shes settling for the next best thing.
I didnt know we knew each other. Go start a thread on slavery or something ya weirdo.The funny thing is, you don't have the balls to use this kind of language in real life.
Dude, youve lost it, breath and relax.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Well not everyone who uses the words "slanty-eyed b!tch" hates asians, or "sh!t-coloured negros" hates blacks either, right?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's kind of pathetic to change your entire attitude for someone else. Do you also grovel to women?Originally posted by ( . )( . )
if I promise to cut back will you promise to stop shaming me and labelling me a WOMAN HATER?
Hey dude, I'm not into that gay stuff. But you can probably find some friends at www.gayalliance.orgsuck my balls tool.
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
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“B1tch is just another word for a confident woman who always wants to have her way.
Why am I not surprised you have no concept of sarcasm.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
It's kind of pathetic to change your entire attitude for someone else.
Kind of like how we "DJs" are proud of being a$$holes.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
And a sticker proudly displayed on every 2nd chicks car or written on her T-shirt, a state of mind to be proud about.
Oooh ouch been owned by the poodle. Yap yap yap captainsaveaho yap yap, women are precious flowers that must be defended yap yap yap, how can I possibly argue with that?Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
LIT - You make a good point. "B!tch" is just a way for guys who can't get laid to put down confident women
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've never saved any "hoes". Unlike you, I don't like hanging out with prostitutes.Originally posted by ( . )( . ) Yap yap yap captainsaveaho yap yap, women are precious flowers that must be defended yap yap yap, how can I possibly argue with that?
Oh so its not the way I say it but the way I say it.Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
T!tboy: It's not the fact you're calling them b!tches. It's the way you're saying it.
so you have a 19 year old daughter??? Haw sluty is she??? Does she have some class, or did you fail as a father??? don't lie now. I'm just curious.Originally posted by ( . )( . )
...my 19 month old kid play with a pitbull alone because even though it looks cute and everything I still know its nature, I dont "hate" the dog if it bites her,
whatttt!!!!!Originally posted by Wyldfire
And please, people...let's keep people's family members out of the arguing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.