Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Nevermind, I keep meeting girls who expect you to act AFC and if you aren't, they want nothing to do with you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not quite, Rollo. That's what the forum USED to be about. Now it's nothing more than a place for posturing and puffery between plastic people, and 95% or better is a load of crap. Very few of the guys can even acknowlege their flaws, let alone address them and better themselves.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
And that's what this forum is all about, retraining young men to understand this while providing them tools to respond to it. [/B]
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why is nearly every country in the world run by a man?Originally posted by Wyldfire
Neither men or women are superior or inferior of the other...they're just different.
Oh give it a rest...Originally posted by Q-Unit
Why is nearly every country in the world run by a man?
Why are the worlds richest individuals nearly all men?
Why are nearly all world religious leaders men?
Why are women the child carriers?
Why are all women innately submissive?
I'm not a chauvenist, and i don't look down on women, but they are inferior to men. For the simple reason that nature made men DOMINANT.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
F#ucking A right!!!Originally posted by fyrefly
You realise being a don juan is all about slipping your hand down a feminists pants while she yells over your head into a megaphone about how bad men are.
Funny thing is that when I was on my trip to Washington D.C. that I saw a girl pushing around just a FRIEND (ex-boyfriend and possibly got back together). She was sitting on the inside of the coach bus seats and he was on the outside of the seats. She just ordered him like this "GET ME MY COMB FOR MY HAIR!!! NOW!!!" His name is E as far as anyone on this site is concerned. He gets up and is about to get it. convo time:Originally posted by Tkman
I am tired of girls pushing guys around like tools
I am tired of seeing girls thinking all guys are stupid (Thanks TV + sissy idiots)
I am tired of hearing how only man want sex and women dont ... give me a break women want it more
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know, it doesn't hit you how bad it really is until you see it in real life. I laugh in the woman's faces. When I told two girls that I consider high quality (compliment coming from me and of course I tell them it in a humorous way to get them to laugh because this is a serious issue that is funny nonetheless) about that. They thought that I was funny and that it was sad.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Quote : comic_relief
J: "Go away from us why don't you?"
:crackup:
she got upset because you were trying to free her slave
Quote : comic_relief
Me: "Oh did I hurt your feelings, your highness?"
Her: "Why thank you now go get him a damn drink!"
:crackup: she so stuck up and thick headed she took the "your highness" remark as a compliment
Lost In Translation
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This is why true DJism will never fail. It won't fail because you change yourself into being cool.Originally posted by bossdog
Women are warning each other about seduction PUAs becase they are fake. They are really dorks not cool guys like they try to act.
Girls like to be with cool guys(the real thing). What a revelation.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.