"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Official Boot Camp Results Thread

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ItWasntMe

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GaryUranga said:
how about who the convos were started on, does that matter?
Preferably random people that you have never met in your life.

Quick note to anyone who thinks they can just cheat and up their convos by 1 or 2 to move on in the weeks, cheating in this is just cheating yourself.

EDIT: went to the movies and hit 16 convo's total. Out of the 7 tonight 4 were HB's 8+. Also 'I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry' with Adam Sandler and the rest of the Grandma's Boy crew is funny as hell. I'd give it a 9-9.5/10 for sure.
 
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When does this week end officially? Also was in Va. over weekend and got 2 convos, but didnt really go andywhere, but I didnt want them to anyway so its all good.
 

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hey buddies
I have many girls in my social network now....I think they like me all....and I think I can use this condition to improve the game....last night I really feel that I am the prize and.......
hey I should give myself at least 5 points for eyecontacts ....I am good at it....my problem is approaching.....I will go alone tommorow!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GaryUranga

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talked to 1 HB and 4 random strangers, I was actually "controlling" a group of starngers, there was 1 acquaince that called me to come over and I went, talked to all of them (stangers+acquaince) and the center of the conversation was moi, I asked the questions too, talked to a bus driver, and to some HB2 (yeah she was pretty gross)

Week2:
4/10 convos

Week3:
1/10 convos (I didnt even notice the chick was hot until I satrted talkign to her she was about a HB7.5)
 

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gg, keep it up comrade!

Update: I'm halfway through it. however, i've found a very annoying problem.
There's a lack of hot babes in the malls, public places, etc. So the only place i've been able to talk to them is in my university. enters the problem:
Most of the Hbs there have a boyfriend. The problem with Colombian boyfriends is that they're always on the defensive, and pretty much paranoid about their girls talking to other men that arent very close to them. Out of 12 or so convos, i've only talked with 5 of them without being told to get away by an angry boyfriend and his friends. Any advice? I'm sick of that.
 
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talked to this other HB7.5 today

and ok.. heres somethign interesting, anyone her heard of amleto monacelli? he was the world bowling champ a few years ago and his niece goes to my school and shes about an 8 :p Im gonna talk to her
 

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Nygard said:
gg, keep it up comrade!

Update: I'm halfway through it. however, i've found a very annoying problem.
There's a lack of hot babes in the malls, public places, etc. So the only place i've been able to talk to them is in my university. enters the problem:
Most of the Hbs there have a boyfriend. The problem with Colombian boyfriends is that they're always on the defensive, and pretty much paranoid about their girls talking to other men that arent very close to them. Out of 12 or so convos, i've only talked with 5 of them without being told to get away by an angry boyfriend and his friends. Any advice? I'm sick of that.
Approach girls randomly in the halls when they aren't surrounded by her bf and his buddies.

Navyseal week 2 ended on Sunday and we are now part way through week 3. If you didn't get all 10 convos but got 7+ convos then you can continue this week, if you got 6 or less then I suggest repeating week 2.
 

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I finished last week's 10 convos on time. I'm doing this weeks' convo aproaching girls i'd like to date. Got a number of a very hot girl that appears to be from Poland and she's studying here.Also, another girl that doesnt speak spanish well, so she doesnt have a boyfriend.
Aproaching girls in the halls is nearly impossible because we dont have that many halls, and the only people you'll see there are going to class in a hurry. this university is pretty expensive and we dont have huge amount of students, althought it's pretty big.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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week 2 is over for me, well kinda, did 8 convos, Ima still do those 2 Im missing, as for week 3 Ive only done 2 convos, but tomorrow I get to see all those chicks Im interested in, possibly, if I do I'll increase that number
 

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OMG, last night I was totally AFC around a girl ive been gaming for weeks. I had poor posture, couldnt hold eye contact and didnt smile. Convos were sparse and it was really boring. Cant believe myself right now. She ended up getting picked up by another guy. I think I lose.
 

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hey
it doesn't matter
next one.....don't think about it anymore

(guys I add my points later.don't laugh.I gain some points.)
 

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Yea, im chilling with another girl tommorow, but I don't know how she'll compare really. Anyway congrats on everyone with thier sucesses.
 

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Well I guess it's about time for me to get this started.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GaryUranga

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I actually approached a girl today she was about a 7? anyways.. this is the first approach Ive done, before it was always me startign conversations in a group setting, she actually seemed to appreciate that I approached her, held a conversation for a bit, it was way easier than I thought.

3/10

might go to the mall soon and get some approaches
 

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Sorry I'm going to lose pace with you guys but I have to repeat week 3 due to some unfortunate circumstances and massive amounts of work I only got in like 3 convo's.

So week 3 for me again:box:
 

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I got 9 convos. I'll get that one tomorrow, so it isnt an issue. I'll read what week 4 is about and what is in for me.
 

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5 convos, repeating, but still chillin with the HB9 ive been working on tommorow.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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