Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The official Acne thread [Merged threads]

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well still clear and this topic needs a bump

jonwon is a ****in acne god

i wish my face would get 100% clear(as in scars), but as long as nothnig comes it will eventually
 

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whats a good brand of benzoyl peroxide 2.5%?
 

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eminence said:
whats a good brand of benzoyl peroxide 2.5%?

acne.org brand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah man, it sure does! This thread has improved my success with women more than any other.

Not only do I have confidence to go get numbers, but I get them thrown at me, literally. I was driving my car, while full on staring at some hot blond in a car parked next to mine at the lights. Then I started flirting and bam she throw her number through my window.

But don't think you can just stop using the creme when it clears. I did and now it's back. I also need to apply it twice a day with heaps of BP to get results.
 

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acne question

i read the other thread on acne,
but my problem is i dont have enough money to get benzoyl peroxide, eryacne,& jojaba oil
do you think i could substite hydrogen peroxide and, neosporin
 

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-Drink alot of water

-Change your pillowcase once a week

-STOP TOUCHING YOUR FACE PRIOR TO WASHING YOUR HANDS

-IF YOU KNOW YOUR GETTING A SMALL ZIT,DONT TOUCH IT! TOUCHING IT AND MESSING WITH IT WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE!
 

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thanks
although im already doin 3/4 of those things
actually i have started changin my pillowcase
but ive noticed that when i applied neosporin, it cleaned up my face a bit
as well as hydrogen peroxide
so i figured i'd put the two together
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What about your diet? Maybe really watch your intake of oils, fats, cocoas and other heavy substances. I don't just mean hamburgers and french fries either, even coffee contains heavy oils, salad dressing, dairy and more.

If you google the topics of diet and skin care I think you will find many food that will encourage acne that you could shy away from and many that will help fight it.

Also, stores sell certain soaps that are oatmeal based and can help with acne, many are very inexpensive and go a long way.

Good luck!
 

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Getting a lot of sleep on a consistent basis is also important. It allows your body to repair itself (including the skin cells of your face). ;)
 
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iight i will try to get more sleep,
cuzz i have noticed its improved my skin
but i have to get up by 5:30
and if i go to bed to early i cant get to sleep till around 12:00
which defeats the purpose
is there anyhting that could help me go to sleep when i want it too
besides pills
for example:
things like warm milk
 

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Hmm...I would think that your particular pattern of sleep in more important than the duration. If you go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, your body will find its own rhythm and you'll be fine. Everyone is different: some people need 10 hours, others need 5.5.
 

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so far I am using Purpose Liquid cleanser to cleanse my face. It's almost as pure as water. and I am using BP 2.5%. I can't find a good moisturizer to use but I am thinking twice if I really need one? I tried Jojoba Oil and it broke me out on my forehead so I stopped using it. My face doesn't get THAT dry because I only apply the BP to the affected area (mostly my cheeks) my chin and forehead is clear now after just applying BP to the pimples. My face feels dry but then about 2 hours later it naturally goes back to normal because my face is gets really oily.

Also what gets rid of red marks left after Acne? I have this spot on my cheek thats been there for like 4 months and the skin is smooth... it's just when I look at it, theres a very bright red dot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Prettyboi said:
i read the other thread on acne,
but my problem is i dont have enough money to get benzoyl peroxide, eryacne,& jojaba oil
do you think i could substite hydrogen peroxide and, neosporin
The healthiest solution is by assessing the root of the problem: your diet.

Check food allergies.
 

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your supposed to mix the oil in to the mix of three and use lots of BP and apply it all over your face. Read everything here first
 

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Once i eliminated ALL forms of dairy from my diet...problem was solved!
 

baurman

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so drinking milk causes acne???

i dont think diet is the cause of acne. my diet is pretty clean. I mean obviously eating chocolate, fries, and stuff won't HELP your acne, but it definitely isnt the cause of the pimple on your face you get the next day. I eat a hot dog and the next day I get a pimple... I'm not gonna blame that because I ate a hot dog.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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