"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The official Acne thread [Merged threads]
- Thread starter jonwon
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
shagnscoob
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 15, 2004
- Messages
- 329
- Reaction score
- 1
eminence said:
acne.org brand.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not only do I have confidence to go get numbers, but I get them thrown at me, literally. I was driving my car, while full on staring at some hot blond in a car parked next to mine at the lights. Then I started flirting and bam she throw her number through my window.
But don't think you can just stop using the creme when it clears. I did and now it's back. I also need to apply it twice a day with heaps of BP to get results.
-Change your pillowcase once a week
-STOP TOUCHING YOUR FACE PRIOR TO WASHING YOUR HANDS
-IF YOU KNOW YOUR GETTING A SMALL ZIT,DONT TOUCH IT! TOUCHING IT AND MESSING WITH IT WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE!
although im already doin 3/4 of those things
actually i have started changin my pillowcase
but ive noticed that when i applied neosporin, it cleaned up my face a bit
as well as hydrogen peroxide
so i figured i'd put the two together
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bad_Lil'Pixie
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2005
- Messages
- 253
- Reaction score
- 5
If you google the topics of diet and skin care I think you will find many food that will encourage acne that you could shy away from and many that will help fight it.
Also, stores sell certain soaps that are oatmeal based and can help with acne, many are very inexpensive and go a long way.
Good luck!
fbplayer06
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 20, 2004
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 1
- Age
- 38
cuzz i have noticed its improved my skin
but i have to get up by 5:30
and if i go to bed to early i cant get to sleep till around 12:00
which defeats the purpose
is there anyhting that could help me go to sleep when i want it too
besides pills
for example:
things like warm milk
fbplayer06
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 20, 2004
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 1
- Age
- 38
Also what gets rid of red marks left after Acne? I have this spot on my cheek thats been there for like 4 months and the skin is smooth... it's just when I look at it, theres a very bright red dot.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
stronglifts
Master Don Juan
The healthiest solution is by assessing the root of the problem: your diet.Prettyboi said:
Check food allergies.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
i dont think diet is the cause of acne. my diet is pretty clean. I mean obviously eating chocolate, fries, and stuff won't HELP your acne, but it definitely isnt the cause of the pimple on your face you get the next day. I eat a hot dog and the next day I get a pimple... I'm not gonna blame that because I ate a hot dog.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.