"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The notorious Kiss Close. What must be done?

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DJ's!

The infamous Kiss close is what's been boggling my mind for a bit.

My last post was about me going ice skating with this HB8 from school. We were friends for a year, hung out for just a little bit, but nothing more, since I was just an AFC. Senior year comes by, and I'm packing heat with the DJ methods! I bust on her a lot, use kino, you know; usual DJ ways.

Ice Skating Night from school is this friday, and someone from my last thread said I should definitely use the kiss close. The issue is, I am not sure how interested she is into me; i am not even sure if she has interest at all!!! Nonetheless, I plan to show her a great time, use lots of kino, humor, and plain old fun to bring up her interest level (or try to). Probably gonna try those IOI tests, like ESP or the hand grabbing method!!

But my mind says...........WHAT must a DJ-in-training do to perform an effective and powerful Kiss Close?


SO DJ's

What are some great and effective ways to KISS CLOSE on a girl I've known for about a year? Please help, and dont label me as AFC! I would like to know some great ways to perform the kiss close without coming off as some rapist or something.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You need to worry less about gimmicks and tricks and just do it. Don't worry about how interested she is and don't try to read stupid little "IOIs." It's all just a waste of time at this point. When you think the time feels right, lean in and kiss her. If she's kisses back, she's interested. If she doesn't kiss back, she's not interested and you can stop wasting your time with her.
 
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When you start kissing, reach around with one hand and caress the back of her head... and she'll think that you've actually kissed a girl before! It works for me!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she needs to get used to you touching her and holding her a little first. So right before you kiss, put your arm around her and get real close. look her in the eye and give her a little smile, like "yeah that's right it's coming," about a 3 second pause, and then you do it. easy. she wants you.
 
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Perfect date for kinoing, skating!

Forget the IOIs, just kino her throughout the whole night.

A little trick i do is, i put my hand on her cheeks (sort of letting her know its coming) and go in for the kiss, works best if you're sitting/standing side by side. if you dont want it to be too abrupt, look her in the eyes while doing this and down to her lips, and go in for it.
 
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