"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The notorious Kiss Close. What must be done?

j8snx1

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DJ's!

The infamous Kiss close is what's been boggling my mind for a bit.

My last post was about me going ice skating with this HB8 from school. We were friends for a year, hung out for just a little bit, but nothing more, since I was just an AFC. Senior year comes by, and I'm packing heat with the DJ methods! I bust on her a lot, use kino, you know; usual DJ ways.

Ice Skating Night from school is this friday, and someone from my last thread said I should definitely use the kiss close. The issue is, I am not sure how interested she is into me; i am not even sure if she has interest at all!!! Nonetheless, I plan to show her a great time, use lots of kino, humor, and plain old fun to bring up her interest level (or try to). Probably gonna try those IOI tests, like ESP or the hand grabbing method!!

But my mind says...........WHAT must a DJ-in-training do to perform an effective and powerful Kiss Close?


SO DJ's

What are some great and effective ways to KISS CLOSE on a girl I've known for about a year? Please help, and dont label me as AFC! I would like to know some great ways to perform the kiss close without coming off as some rapist or something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shiftkey

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You need to worry less about gimmicks and tricks and just do it. Don't worry about how interested she is and don't try to read stupid little "IOIs." It's all just a waste of time at this point. When you think the time feels right, lean in and kiss her. If she's kisses back, she's interested. If she doesn't kiss back, she's not interested and you can stop wasting your time with her.
 

wheelin&dealin

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When you start kissing, reach around with one hand and caress the back of her head... and she'll think that you've actually kissed a girl before! It works for me!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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superchristx

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she needs to get used to you touching her and holding her a little first. So right before you kiss, put your arm around her and get real close. look her in the eye and give her a little smile, like "yeah that's right it's coming," about a 3 second pause, and then you do it. easy. she wants you.
 

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Perfect date for kinoing, skating!

Forget the IOIs, just kino her throughout the whole night.

A little trick i do is, i put my hand on her cheeks (sort of letting her know its coming) and go in for the kiss, works best if you're sitting/standing side by side. if you dont want it to be too abrupt, look her in the eyes while doing this and down to her lips, and go in for it.
 
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