"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The notorious Kiss Close. What must be done?

j8snx1

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DJ's!

The infamous Kiss close is what's been boggling my mind for a bit.

My last post was about me going ice skating with this HB8 from school. We were friends for a year, hung out for just a little bit, but nothing more, since I was just an AFC. Senior year comes by, and I'm packing heat with the DJ methods! I bust on her a lot, use kino, you know; usual DJ ways.

Ice Skating Night from school is this friday, and someone from my last thread said I should definitely use the kiss close. The issue is, I am not sure how interested she is into me; i am not even sure if she has interest at all!!! Nonetheless, I plan to show her a great time, use lots of kino, humor, and plain old fun to bring up her interest level (or try to). Probably gonna try those IOI tests, like ESP or the hand grabbing method!!

But my mind says...........WHAT must a DJ-in-training do to perform an effective and powerful Kiss Close?


SO DJ's

What are some great and effective ways to KISS CLOSE on a girl I've known for about a year? Please help, and dont label me as AFC! I would like to know some great ways to perform the kiss close without coming off as some rapist or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shiftkey

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You need to worry less about gimmicks and tricks and just do it. Don't worry about how interested she is and don't try to read stupid little "IOIs." It's all just a waste of time at this point. When you think the time feels right, lean in and kiss her. If she's kisses back, she's interested. If she doesn't kiss back, she's not interested and you can stop wasting your time with her.
 

wheelin&dealin

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When you start kissing, reach around with one hand and caress the back of her head... and she'll think that you've actually kissed a girl before! It works for me!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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superchristx

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she needs to get used to you touching her and holding her a little first. So right before you kiss, put your arm around her and get real close. look her in the eye and give her a little smile, like "yeah that's right it's coming," about a 3 second pause, and then you do it. easy. she wants you.
 

ScrewIt

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Perfect date for kinoing, skating!

Forget the IOIs, just kino her throughout the whole night.

A little trick i do is, i put my hand on her cheeks (sort of letting her know its coming) and go in for the kiss, works best if you're sitting/standing side by side. if you dont want it to be too abrupt, look her in the eyes while doing this and down to her lips, and go in for it.
 
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