Ok I discovered that just like guys, girls also sometimes find it hard to tell you how they really feel about you. They too are affraid they will be rejected.
So one hint a girl may give you is that she says that you're a nice guy(not in the nice guy/jerk way, it is a compliment). But what does she means with this? You don't have to ask her what she means with this straight away, she'll just say it is hard to explain. So now it is up to you to find out what she means with little light questions.
Some questions you might ask are:
1. Are nice guys handsome?
2. Do you like being with nice guys?
3. Would you like to go out with nice guys?
4. Is a nice guy a nice person to talk to?
5. Do you trust a nice guy?
etc etc.
Than the point of these questions comes up. Ask her to give some guys a note from 1 (bad) to 10 (great) in how much of a nice guy they are. Ask about some guys you know so you get an idea about her taste. Then ask her what note you would get.
This is what the notes mean
1, 2, 3, 4= she is either making a joke or you can pack your bags
5, 6 = You are to average, try harder or hit the next one
7 = You are doing well, but not enough, try harder.
8 = Your doing pretty well, she like's you!
9 = Your're in! She likes you a lot, just don't mess it up.
10 = She is lying, no one is perfect. At this point she is making a joke or she is very, very desperatly in love with you
After your note you pretend there is nothing going on. Even when she gave you a 9 don't look impressed. After all, you where just interested in her idea of a nice guy.
Now comes the finisher
This is the last question to make your efforts usefull
Good finishers are:
-Would you kiss THIS nice guy?
-Would you give THIS nice guy your phone number?
-Would you like to go on a date with THIS nice guy?
Suddenly she understands your intentions and she will probably kiss you, go on a date or give you her phone number! This is why you had to play cool when she gave you a good note, she'll think you aren't interested in her but just when she thinks it is over you totally suprise her with the finisher!
You see what you just found out by these simple questions?
1. You know how she thinks about you because she told what a nice guy means to her (handsome, funny, attractive) and she just told you you are a nice guy! So you are all of this.
2. The note shows you how much she likes you, a good note can give you a lot of confidence because you are sure she likes you!
I hope this is a usefull technique
Let me know what you guys think of it. If you think it is great tell me, if you think it sucks tell me.
Try it and tell me how it worked out!
Greetz from Holland
So one hint a girl may give you is that she says that you're a nice guy(not in the nice guy/jerk way, it is a compliment). But what does she means with this? You don't have to ask her what she means with this straight away, she'll just say it is hard to explain. So now it is up to you to find out what she means with little light questions.
Some questions you might ask are:
1. Are nice guys handsome?
2. Do you like being with nice guys?
3. Would you like to go out with nice guys?
4. Is a nice guy a nice person to talk to?
5. Do you trust a nice guy?
etc etc.
Than the point of these questions comes up. Ask her to give some guys a note from 1 (bad) to 10 (great) in how much of a nice guy they are. Ask about some guys you know so you get an idea about her taste. Then ask her what note you would get.
This is what the notes mean
1, 2, 3, 4= she is either making a joke or you can pack your bags
5, 6 = You are to average, try harder or hit the next one
7 = You are doing well, but not enough, try harder.
8 = Your doing pretty well, she like's you!
9 = Your're in! She likes you a lot, just don't mess it up.
10 = She is lying, no one is perfect. At this point she is making a joke or she is very, very desperatly in love with you
After your note you pretend there is nothing going on. Even when she gave you a 9 don't look impressed. After all, you where just interested in her idea of a nice guy.
Now comes the finisher
This is the last question to make your efforts usefull
Good finishers are:
-Would you kiss THIS nice guy?
-Would you give THIS nice guy your phone number?
-Would you like to go on a date with THIS nice guy?
Suddenly she understands your intentions and she will probably kiss you, go on a date or give you her phone number! This is why you had to play cool when she gave you a good note, she'll think you aren't interested in her but just when she thinks it is over you totally suprise her with the finisher!
You see what you just found out by these simple questions?
1. You know how she thinks about you because she told what a nice guy means to her (handsome, funny, attractive) and she just told you you are a nice guy! So you are all of this.
2. The note shows you how much she likes you, a good note can give you a lot of confidence because you are sure she likes you!
I hope this is a usefull technique
Let me know what you guys think of it. If you think it is great tell me, if you think it sucks tell me.
Try it and tell me how it worked out!
Greetz from Holland