"the note" technique

[Dutchy]

Ok I discovered that just like guys, girls also sometimes find it hard to tell you how they really feel about you. They too are affraid they will be rejected.

So one hint a girl may give you is that she says that you're a nice guy(not in the nice guy/jerk way, it is a compliment). But what does she means with this? You don't have to ask her what she means with this straight away, she'll just say it is hard to explain. So now it is up to you to find out what she means with little light questions.

Some questions you might ask are:

1. Are nice guys handsome?
2. Do you like being with nice guys?
3. Would you like to go out with nice guys?
4. Is a nice guy a nice person to talk to?
5. Do you trust a nice guy?
etc etc.

Than the point of these questions comes up. Ask her to give some guys a note from 1 (bad) to 10 (great) in how much of a nice guy they are. Ask about some guys you know so you get an idea about her taste. Then ask her what note you would get.

This is what the notes mean

1, 2, 3, 4= she is either making a joke or you can pack your bags
5, 6 = You are to average, try harder or hit the next one
7 = You are doing well, but not enough, try harder.
8 = Your doing pretty well, she like's you!
9 = Your're in! She likes you a lot, just don't mess it up.
10 = She is lying, no one is perfect. At this point she is making a joke or she is very, very desperatly in love with you

After your note you pretend there is nothing going on. Even when she gave you a 9 don't look impressed. After all, you where just interested in her idea of a nice guy.

Now comes the finisher

This is the last question to make your efforts usefull

Good finishers are:

-Would you kiss THIS nice guy?
-Would you give THIS nice guy your phone number?
-Would you like to go on a date with THIS nice guy?

Suddenly she understands your intentions and she will probably kiss you, go on a date or give you her phone number! This is why you had to play cool when she gave you a good note, she'll think you aren't interested in her but just when she thinks it is over you totally suprise her with the finisher!

You see what you just found out by these simple questions?

1. You know how she thinks about you because she told what a nice guy means to her (handsome, funny, attractive) and she just told you you are a nice guy! So you are all of this.

2. The note shows you how much she likes you, a good note can give you a lot of confidence because you are sure she likes you!

I hope this is a usefull technique

Let me know what you guys think of it. If you think it is great tell me, if you think it sucks tell me.

Try it and tell me how it worked out!

Greetz from Holland

 

[NeW2TheGame]

IMO, no, i don't see this as a "viable" technique.
Another thing is, try it out YOURSELF first, THEN if it works, tell us, simply because we are not interested in techniques that get us shotdown..

Peace.

 

[Gateway]

sounds like a good idea ill try it out sometime hope you field tested it


---Zin

 

[Dutchy]

Yes i did try it out before posting it here. And I found out this girl liked me more than I thought. Gave me a big confidence boost, because I didn´t had to try anymore to make her like me.
I just wanted to know if this technique always work. But next time i´ll post my own experience with it, forgot is this time.

 

[NeW2TheGame]

All good,

 

[oakraiderz2]

How is being called a nice guy in not a nice guy way possible? Id rather be considered a good guy, not too many of them out there so they say.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Oh jeez. Another way to see if the chick wants you is to just be like

"So rumor has it that you totally want my body"

If she plays along, shes interested.

 

[AC/DC]

Why cant you juss talk to her?

 

[Cowhead418]

I don't like it, all you are doing is qualifying yourself to her. It should be the other way around.

 

[Tom Juan]

This is bloody stupid.

 

[Dutchy]

This is bloody stupid.

Still better than lying about that you´re moving to get her in bed. .