Tough indeed. You will get through it. When you look back you will smile...SoSuave666 said:This is a tough post to read. Just take my word for it when I tell you you'll get over it.
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Tough indeed. You will get through it. When you look back you will smile...SoSuave666 said:This is a tough post to read. Just take my word for it when I tell you you'll get over it.
Between_The_Lines said:Every minute after you send that text is going to feel like an hour until she responds, assuming she even responds. You definitely do not want to experience a no response from her. Bite the bullet, save yourself the agony, and carry on as if it were any other ordinary day.
No way. Forget the *****. Done and dusted . Bullet dodged . You are Brad Pitt. Forget Paltrow. Look what happened to her . Divorced now. You will have Jolie sucking your dikkDarrenez said:Hi guys and gals,
It's my Ex girlfriend birthday tomorrow. We split up in April, after 7 years. I last spoke to her on September 6th. Do I message a happy birthday message or not?
Obviously I remember its her birthday and personally would like to wish her a happy birthday. However is it worth it? What would she think if I didnt..not that she'd care.
Thoughts guys please.
This is what boggles me the most about my most recent break up. I got my first serious emotional beat down around 19-20, went through the whole bitter "this will NEVER happen to me again" phase for a little over 10 years, and slid further back than ever with the same girl I once had eating out of my hands. A part of me thinks I'm (still) being dishonest with myself, because an entire decade without getting one's emotions trampled should only take place if you've been on the sidelines or passively playing the game.TheMonkeyKing said:One of the biggest mistakes I see guys making here is thinking that getting over one girl makes them a Don. That is simply not the case. I still find myself backsliding, to this very day, on things that happened with exes of 10 years ago.
True *sigh*Mauser96 said:And so...begins Day 1, all over again.
Everything started to collapse on me.I've cheated on you twice. I had to tell it to you to make it easier on my heart. Bye.
Well, I didn't reply and what she wrote only made me hate her guts even more.Mauser96 said:Great!! That IS the goal after all.......not to "punish her" so much as to "help you" Sounds like you are doing allright
Cerwin Vega Fan,
you said "Friday night, out with my new girl
Got a text message from the ex, after >3 months of NC and 7 months since breakup:
Quote:
I've cheated on you twice. I had to tell it to you to make it easier on my heart. Bye.
Everything started to collapse on me.
I didn't know what to do. I showed the message to my girlfriend, she held my hand tight and said "let me reply that b1tch" and I said "no, just delete the message and block her"
The whole evening it felt like she was comforting me. Right now I'm home and I still feel like crap. All those things and moments we shared are ABSOLUTE LIES. That fvcking lying piece of sh!t cheated on me. Now she wants to "clear her heart". FVCK THAT
I will let her hamster wheel spin itself into total destruction; becoming the most successful person I can be, let that fvcking piece of sh1t DROWN in her own sorrow and agony for losing THE BEST THING SHE HAS EVER HAD.
Man I feel like ****. Not to mention I and my new gf need to get tested now because I didn't use condoms with both of them (the pill)."
dude, why worry about it? The fact is, it could be an out and out lie and probably is, just to get under your skin, hurt you and prompt a reply. Fvck her.
I would bet $1000 this was the reason she wrote this - nothing else makes sense
Hey man, same hereShaka said:Hey Vega, long time no see
I'm with Mauser.
I bet it's a lie. Don't give in and do not answer !
Some women have a twisted way for getting attention.
I'm not the type of guy that screams "BPD" for every minor things but be careful here. Don't be swallowed by the vortex. She seems a little kookoo.
Try considering blocking her number.
I know how far you came from since April, so hang in there.
It's nice that you're able to look back and see all the progress you made so far !
But the path never ends bro so keep at it