mikey2012 said:
I don't think all women think like that all of the time. If she really loved you then she wouldn't see you like that. I do think she got hurt when you ditched her in her time of need. I know fellow DJs will say fvck her and find another , spin plates etc but if you did connect with her and she is special out of all the chicks you have dated then I guess you would make special effort . That's how I would see it
He already made the special effort!
What did he got? Games, Distance, Rejection, Flakiness...
You can all call me bitter, or you both may even want to ignore me, when I'm really reaching out for you guys!
But nobody said moving on was easy. It is really hard. But you've got to put yourself into it. 100%
Digging for the past will never do any good. We all know it. We all experienced it...
...But you just can't quit!
The only thing that is not allowing you getting over is yourself. You don't want to move on, and so, as a self fulfilling prophecy, you won't!
It is hard letting go. It is hard giving up. Do you guys think I wanted to move on. To give up on her? I didn't. But I had to.
I still think about her a LOT. Every single song that plays I still relate them to her. But I have to keep looking foward. Not backwards.
As I said, you both may want to ignore me, and don't respond me when I'm clearly with the sole purpose of helping you out! But I want you to understand that I did not wanted any of this, the same way as you, or even more. She was the Love of my Life. Do you think I wanted to give up on that?
But I had to.
And the only way of doing so, is the clichèd, SPIN MORE PLATES. Get other chicks.
This weekend I had 3 dates in less than 24h. With 3 different chicks. One of them was my highschool crush, who was being flakey some weeks ago. I made out with 6 chicks totally between friday and saturday.
If you go back to wednesday, 4 days ago, and I've banged another chick. Thats 7 girls in 4 days guys. And I'm going out with a girl I hooked up this friday on a date. Today!
It was crazy, it was hot. I did several things. Had real great time with those chicks. Laughed. Kissed. Grinded. Played...
And one by one they are getting hotter. This one I'm going out today is absolutelly stunning.
But I did all of this because I HAVE TO MOVE ON! I have to put myself out there, and make this SPECIAL EFFORT FOR MYSELF!
So if you want to do some 'special effort', MAKE IT FOR YOURSELF...
Not for your exes. They are not moving a leaf in order to 'get things right' with you guys. You should only care about yourself!
Enjoy other girls. Enjoy Life. Enjoy yourself!