"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An old "friend" and i met up tonight...had some drinks and laughs, and i was planning on leaving it at that. as the night went on...she was giving me major kino. after a couple bars she ended up asking to come to her place. After we got there it started off slow just watching some movies together... and we started getting closer and closer. when she turned off the TV and we started messing around...she would ask me...." did you miss me.. " and i would say of course...but she asked me like three or four times....
she also keeped saying " our your 23 yr old hand is going crazy and she would laugh "....what was she trying to tell me...slow it down?!? shes 29 im 23 soon to be 24...

we ended up not going all the way since her room mate was coming home soon...

i could tell she wanted to ****...but the whole roommate thing was kinda holding us up!

since we were just "friends" before...how should i proceed?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahh, don't get it into your head too much. If she calls or you meet up again, go for it, if not, forget it.
 
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Seems like she's the type to just 'mess around'

Schedule for a meet up. If she bites, find a more private setting to get freaky.

It's simply, this girl won't be an obstacle to escalate physically with. Just don't over complicate the matter.
 
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thats my whole plan is to keep it simple! don't want emotion to get in the way like with my last chick!
I still dont know what was up with her saying about my " 23 yr old hand ". The older DJ's whats the deal?
 
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