"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blown5.0

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An old "friend" and i met up tonight...had some drinks and laughs, and i was planning on leaving it at that. as the night went on...she was giving me major kino. after a couple bars she ended up asking to come to her place. After we got there it started off slow just watching some movies together... and we started getting closer and closer. when she turned off the TV and we started messing around...she would ask me...." did you miss me.. " and i would say of course...but she asked me like three or four times....
she also keeped saying " our your 23 yr old hand is going crazy and she would laugh "....what was she trying to tell me...slow it down?!? shes 29 im 23 soon to be 24...

we ended up not going all the way since her room mate was coming home soon...

i could tell she wanted to ****...but the whole roommate thing was kinda holding us up!

since we were just "friends" before...how should i proceed?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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premierxxx

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Ahh, don't get it into your head too much. If she calls or you meet up again, go for it, if not, forget it.
 

Allurre

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Seems like she's the type to just 'mess around'

Schedule for a meet up. If she bites, find a more private setting to get freaky.

It's simply, this girl won't be an obstacle to escalate physically with. Just don't over complicate the matter.
 

Blown5.0

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thats my whole plan is to keep it simple! don't want emotion to get in the way like with my last chick!
I still dont know what was up with her saying about my " 23 yr old hand ". The older DJ's whats the deal?
 
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