"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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An old "friend" and i met up tonight...had some drinks and laughs, and i was planning on leaving it at that. as the night went on...she was giving me major kino. after a couple bars she ended up asking to come to her place. After we got there it started off slow just watching some movies together... and we started getting closer and closer. when she turned off the TV and we started messing around...she would ask me...." did you miss me.. " and i would say of course...but she asked me like three or four times....
she also keeped saying " our your 23 yr old hand is going crazy and she would laugh "....what was she trying to tell me...slow it down?!? shes 29 im 23 soon to be 24...

we ended up not going all the way since her room mate was coming home soon...

i could tell she wanted to ****...but the whole roommate thing was kinda holding us up!

since we were just "friends" before...how should i proceed?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ahh, don't get it into your head too much. If she calls or you meet up again, go for it, if not, forget it.
 
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Seems like she's the type to just 'mess around'

Schedule for a meet up. If she bites, find a more private setting to get freaky.

It's simply, this girl won't be an obstacle to escalate physically with. Just don't over complicate the matter.
 
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thats my whole plan is to keep it simple! don't want emotion to get in the way like with my last chick!
I still dont know what was up with her saying about my " 23 yr old hand ". The older DJ's whats the deal?
 
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