Hey guys, so here I am, a senior in highschool, 18, blonde hair blue eyes and I attract the occasional glance from the random chic. Sounds good right? well heres the delema, so I get along with chics pretty well, and I flirt with quit a few girls. They are comforatable with me touching them (appropriatly) i.e. squeez the shoulder or hip, occasion hug, ect. . Alright so thats basicly what I have with a few girls. Now my question is: How do I make the transition from flirting with a girl to her becoming a girlfriend?; the next level. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The Next Level
- Thread starter Kourt
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Maybe hang out possibly maybe. THis is a dumbass question. WHat do you think you would do??
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...taker her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...take her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
STOP BEING A MORON!! WHICHEVER ONE YOU LIKE MORE!!! GODDAMN JESUS CHRIST!!
Theres a lot of things you could do to hang out with a girl. If they like you, make it a date (you and them). Last weekend i took a girl to get ice cream and mini golf, its a great place to talk and learn more about the person and c/f, kino. The date should give you an idea if she is g/f material or not. If she is you will feel it and if shes not then, next.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sweet, Icecream and mini golf would be great . . . except for the fact that its 10 degrees F everyday and we have like 10 feet of snow, oh and heres another of my probs. so theres 2 girls I like, they are both close friends thou, and both of them like me, so how do I say, ask one out, without hurting the other? or is it just inevitable if I do go for one of them.
Smooth as Anything
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Be a man.
Which means stop asking dumb questions you can answer yourself and start making choices that will hurt others.
Time will run its course.
Zero0ne
Don Juan
Unforunatly, I seem to be suffering from a similar dilemma. I have an extremely annalitical mind and, thus, have very few creative ideas that seem to ooze from the minds of you more experienced posters.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.