Hey guys, so here I am, a senior in highschool, 18, blonde hair blue eyes and I attract the occasional glance from the random chic. Sounds good right? well heres the delema, so I get along with chics pretty well, and I flirt with quit a few girls. They are comforatable with me touching them (appropriatly) i.e. squeez the shoulder or hip, occasion hug, ect. . Alright so thats basicly what I have with a few girls. Now my question is: How do I make the transition from flirting with a girl to her becoming a girlfriend?; the next level. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The Next Level
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Maybe hang out possibly maybe. THis is a dumbass question. WHat do you think you would do??
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...taker her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...take her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
STOP BEING A MORON!! WHICHEVER ONE YOU LIKE MORE!!! GODDAMN JESUS CHRIST!!
Theres a lot of things you could do to hang out with a girl. If they like you, make it a date (you and them). Last weekend i took a girl to get ice cream and mini golf, its a great place to talk and learn more about the person and c/f, kino. The date should give you an idea if she is g/f material or not. If she is you will feel it and if shes not then, next.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sweet, Icecream and mini golf would be great . . . except for the fact that its 10 degrees F everyday and we have like 10 feet of snow, oh and heres another of my probs. so theres 2 girls I like, they are both close friends thou, and both of them like me, so how do I say, ask one out, without hurting the other? or is it just inevitable if I do go for one of them.
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Be a man.
Which means stop asking dumb questions you can answer yourself and start making choices that will hurt others.
Time will run its course.
Zero0ne
Don Juan
Unforunatly, I seem to be suffering from a similar dilemma. I have an extremely annalitical mind and, thus, have very few creative ideas that seem to ooze from the minds of you more experienced posters.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.