Hey guys, so here I am, a senior in highschool, 18, blonde hair blue eyes and I attract the occasional glance from the random chic. Sounds good right? well heres the delema, so I get along with chics pretty well, and I flirt with quit a few girls. They are comforatable with me touching them (appropriatly) i.e. squeez the shoulder or hip, occasion hug, ect. . Alright so thats basicly what I have with a few girls. Now my question is: How do I make the transition from flirting with a girl to her becoming a girlfriend?; the next level. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Next Level
- Thread starter Kourt
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Maybe hang out possibly maybe. THis is a dumbass question. WHat do you think you would do??
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...taker her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
ask her out...take her on a date. Did you ever think of that?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
STOP BEING A MORON!! WHICHEVER ONE YOU LIKE MORE!!! GODDAMN JESUS CHRIST!!
Theres a lot of things you could do to hang out with a girl. If they like you, make it a date (you and them). Last weekend i took a girl to get ice cream and mini golf, its a great place to talk and learn more about the person and c/f, kino. The date should give you an idea if she is g/f material or not. If she is you will feel it and if shes not then, next.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
sweet, Icecream and mini golf would be great . . . except for the fact that its 10 degrees F everyday and we have like 10 feet of snow, oh and heres another of my probs. so theres 2 girls I like, they are both close friends thou, and both of them like me, so how do I say, ask one out, without hurting the other? or is it just inevitable if I do go for one of them.
Smooth as Anything
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Be a man.
Which means stop asking dumb questions you can answer yourself and start making choices that will hurt others.
Time will run its course.
Zero0ne
Don Juan
Unforunatly, I seem to be suffering from a similar dilemma. I have an extremely annalitical mind and, thus, have very few creative ideas that seem to ooze from the minds of you more experienced posters.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.
Please be patient when teaching the blind.