"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The new year

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We all have our goals to achieve in the new year.

I am one of them, but will I achieve them? Well have a look at my threads this year and especially my latest one. I will give it my very best. But, and I know this is a wrong attitude to start this new year, my hopes are very low.

I am getting very tired of who I am and how I behave. The latest example being I almost got run over by a drunk driver just recently. I did not react, I just let him go. I wouldn't have died since he was only going 5mph, but nonetheless could have sustained a serious injury. Looking back I should have pulled him out of his car and gave him my thoughts. Why I didn't do that? Well because I'm just mr. nice guy.

But here is my simple goal, to become who I want to be. And to try and not post for an entire year on this forum. Every single thread of me has been very negative, I want my next one to be a positive one. So we'll wait and see.

I wish you all the best and a very good year. And I want to thank you for the replies and advice you have all given me.

I hope to see you in 2018.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SayWhat said:
Looking back I should have pulled him out of his car and gave him my thoughts. Why I didn't do that? Well because I'm just mr. nice guy.
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I think letting him go was the best choice. You weren't injured. These days you might have gotten more than you bargained for. Maybe he might have had a gun. Drunks don't make the best decisions. I would have gotten his plate number and called 911. Tell them that this drunk almost ran over me. Let the police do their job.
 
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