“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The new year

SayWhat

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We all have our goals to achieve in the new year.

I am one of them, but will I achieve them? Well have a look at my threads this year and especially my latest one. I will give it my very best. But, and I know this is a wrong attitude to start this new year, my hopes are very low.

I am getting very tired of who I am and how I behave. The latest example being I almost got run over by a drunk driver just recently. I did not react, I just let him go. I wouldn't have died since he was only going 5mph, but nonetheless could have sustained a serious injury. Looking back I should have pulled him out of his car and gave him my thoughts. Why I didn't do that? Well because I'm just mr. nice guy.

But here is my simple goal, to become who I want to be. And to try and not post for an entire year on this forum. Every single thread of me has been very negative, I want my next one to be a positive one. So we'll wait and see.

I wish you all the best and a very good year. And I want to thank you for the replies and advice you have all given me.

I hope to see you in 2018.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking back I should have pulled him out of his car and gave him my thoughts. Why I didn't do that? Well because I'm just mr. nice guy.
I think letting him go was the best choice. You weren't injured. These days you might have gotten more than you bargained for. Maybe he might have had a gun. Drunks don't make the best decisions. I would have gotten his plate number and called 911. Tell them that this drunk almost ran over me. Let the police do their job.
 
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